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Emails From People Who Have Gone Through a Pet's
Loss: Click here for the previous page A story about saying goodbye to Skipper 12-17-04 I am sitting here at the computer searching
for comfort...and I have found your web site. In 10 minutes I take my
beloved blk. Lab, Ebony to the vet for the last time. I read your tribute
to your friend and I felt like I could have written it. It mirrors the
emotions, symptoms, and anguish my wife and I have been dealing with
for the last 5 months. It is the hardest decision I have ever had to
make. You know that as well as anyone. 10 - 31, 2003 Dear Mr. Frawley, I finally found a page where I can see that I am not alone. Dear Simba. You were only 6 when I had to tell the doctor that you had I remember when Amanda and I went to pick out a Beagle puppy. There
you I also miss the way that you would follow me upstairs when I would get
home When we took you and Nala out for walks you always acted tough when
you saw It all started in August of 2003. You started favoring your leg and
then I am so sorry that we let you go at such a young age and I am looking Love Rich, Judy, Amanda and Ashley (and your friend Nala) August 1, 2003 I found your website today. It really helped
to know that other people had had, or were having this hard of a time
saying good-bye. My dog is a miniature dachshund named Skooter. He was
named after a trend that he started at just 6 weeks old. He would drag
his back legs behind him whenever he was happy. Now damning irony has
cursed him with dragging his back legs not out of happiness, but out
of pain. He has a slipped disc that has paralyzed him from the middle
of the back down. The doctors have given him steroids, muscle relaxers,
and quartazone for the swelling. We have 24 hours left to pray. If he
does not regain feeling in his legs, the paralysis will be permanent.
If this is the outcome, he will have to be put to sleep. My heart breaks
more and more every day. I just cannot bear the thought of loosing my
baby boy. He has been my heart and soul. I dont know how I'm going to
walk in to that room and tell him its his time to go. I don't know how
I'm going to look in his eyes and hug him for the last time. The rainbow
poem on your website made has eased the pain a little. It shines a light
at the end of a very dark tunnel. That one day God will decide its my
time, and Skootie and I will be reunited for eternity. May 6, 2003 Mr Frawley, I found your website today and it made me feel better about the decision
my May 6, 2003 I went onto the internet this morning to see if I could find some help. You see, today I have to say goodbye to a good friend. We have two wonderful dogs, and today I have to let one go. We adopted my sisters dog about a year ago now. He is a 12 year old shitzu-poodle cross. He has always been very animated to say the least. Very vocal, so to speak. When you sing, "How much is That Doggy In The Window?" , he looses it and sings right along. Back in Nov. of 2002, he became very ill, to the point of not being able to eat, and shaking uncontrollably, and also not being able to walk. We decided, because he was my sisters dog, we would do what ever we could to save him. (My sister has MS and has been in a nursing home for a couple of years now, and he was her best friend.) My mother, bless her heart, paid for Alex to have x-rays, and tests to determine the problem. It turned out he had a severe infection of some kind and needed antibiotics immediately. He had a very high fever, which accounted for the violent shaking he was having to endure. Well, to make a long story short, he did recovered. He was a puppy again, in a 12 year old body. The past couple of days, he has changed though. He is having accidents in the house, which he NEVER does. Last night and this morning, there were piles of poop in the kitchen that I had to clean up. The other evening, he had was having what appeared to be a mild seizure of some sort. Something isn't right. His aggressiveness towards our other dog is getting worse, and that is also a sign of something. I told my husband, that it's time. He is suffering in some way, and can't communicate that to us. I phoned the vet last night but I would only see his vet, so I have an appointment this morning at 10 AM. We had the evening with him, which I am grateful. My husband has to work this morning and can't come with me. I told him, that I want to be with Alex when the vet administers the medication, so my face is the last face he sees, and my voice is the last voice he hears. And he feels my warmth surrounding him. I want it to be familiar and comfortable and loving. His vet, Terry, is amazing. That's why I only want it to be her. Our daughter wants to be with me also. She is 6, and I sort of explained to her what will happen, and asked her if she is sure that this is what she wants to do. She said 'yes'. I don't think children should question what happened. She is a very mature 6 year old, and wants to be with mommy to see Alex one last time. This is very hard. It's almost like he knows that this is going to happen. I talked to my mother last evening and she is in agreement too. If Alex is suffering, we can't keep him alive for selfish reasons. We have to show him the respect that he deserves. So today, I will hold him one last time, and say 'goodbye'. I'll keep his bed. (Our other dog, likes to sleep in it.) The vet will take his picture for me, and I'll give it to my sister when the time is right. After all, Alex was her dog for many years. Her best friend when she was going through her illness. She is in agreement too. None of us want Alex to suffer. I'm crying as I write this. I know it's the right thing to do. He's sleeping right now, on the floor, just outside our office door. In a few hours he'll be gone. "Thank you little boy, for being here. Thank you little friend for loving us, and letting us keep you. Thank you, little one, for giving us the enthusiasm that you possessed, and entertaining us with your voice and your words. Thank you, little Alex, for letting me love you. Goodbye little friend." Luanne, September 4 , 2003 A friend pointed out the article on how to know when it is time to put your dog to sleep and I felt compelled to write you a letter, sharing the one experience that happened to me as a child. It happened about 23 years ago, but it is something that I didn't understand until now. I can't remember exactly how old I was when we got Ebony. I do remember that night, though. My mom, dad, baby sister and I were out on a family outing and were walking around when we happened upon a lady giving away mixed breed puppies. There were quite a few of them, perhaps five or so, but my mom homed in on the little black puppy in the box. I remember my dad being so set on his decision; there was no way he was going to let us get a puppy. But my mom eventually won and Ebony was brought home with us that night. There was never such a loyal companion or family member as him. Ebony was exceptional. Even our two cats, Whiskey and Shadow, thought Ebony was just great once they taught him not to play too rough with them. I remember the times he would lay near the fireplace with his tummy facing it, the cats curled comfortably against him as the three of them soaked in the heat of the fire. Or how he'd lay in front of it and let me use his side as a pillow. Not too many dogs have that kind of temperament, I imagine, but Ebony was a saint. He was also very protective but it was my baby sister who received most of his attention. My mom has told me more than once about how he'd follow her if we were in the park and I went one way and she'd go the other, only leaving Mary's side if I was playing on the log bridge. Then he'd walk under it until I was safely at the other side, only to return to my sister's side once he made sure I was safe. And God help anyone who tried to mess with Ebony's little baby. Our neighbor's oldest son was wrestling with Mary one day and our boy was sitting beside them, watching carefully to make sure she wasn't hurt and, when he decided she had enough, placed himself bodily between Mary and the boy and stared at him. Didn't growl, my mom said, but he did give Jeff that 'don't you hurt my baby' look. Ebony was also very calm and tolerant of us kids. Mom said there was one time my sister was bouncing on his side. It must of started to hurt because mom, who was in the kitchen while they were in the living room, heard a growl and Ebony's jaws snap. Mary started to cry and my mom panicked, thinking the dog had bit here but there was not a single mark upon her. All my mom could figure out was that he had snapped at her to get her off. And he loved it when I'd take him for walks while I was on my roller skates. I was just glad he wasn't too much of a runner. He was a healthy dog until..I can't remember how old he was (I am thinking he was about four or so) but it's odd how I can remember how we found out Ebony was sick. We had gone to the harbor and Ebony, who was part lab, had been in the water, fetching sticks. We were getting ready to leave and Ebony went to shake himself and passed out, remaining unconscious for several minutes before coming to. I can't remember if there were other incidents of that happening or not but we were scared by the first time it happened and took him to the vet who discovered a lump in his groin near one of his hind legs. They removed it and did a biopsy of the mass..only to find out it was cancer. I can't remember what kind it was but the vet told my mom and dad that it was not a type of cancer that was typically found in younger dogs but rather in those that were of advanced years. Not certain if they did any treatments or anything but it really probably wouldn't have helped if they did because the cancer quickly spread to his lungs. His quality of life had rapidly gone down hill until he could hardly breathe or move and he was in quite a bit of pain. My parents made that difficult choice to better his life by putting him down and letting him go to 'a better place'. I remember being confused as I really was too young to understand that it was humane to kill a cherished loved one when they are sick and hurting like my best friend was. All I knew is that he wasn't going to be alive anymore. They made the appointment and told me when it'd be. It was a school day for me so I was in class when it happened. I don't remember feeling particularly sad or upset. I do remember looking up at the clock. I can even remember the time being around 8:40. Odd how I remember that as well as thinking to myself 'He's gone' but I didn't cry. I couldn't. Didn't know how to, I suppose. I went home that day and Ebony wasn't there to greet me and that was so strange. But we healed and went on, eventually getting another dog, a shelter dog named Princess. Now here I am, relating this story to you after so many years and I can cry now. I have had to stop several times because I could see what I was typing thanks to crying so damn hard. The poem 'The Rainbow Bridge' helps, though. I know that Ebony will be there waiting for us..for me. I love you, Ebony. Never have stopped loving you, boy. I will see you someday, I promise. Heather December 21, 2003 "My beloved Cody" I bumped into your site while surfing
this evening. Reading stories of others who have made that difficult
decision to let go made me cry. My red and white husky "Cody" is
the "love of my life." We've been together for 10 1/2 years,
since he was 8-weeks old. As I struggle to type this he is suffering
from kidney failure. He recently stopped eating on his own and cannot
hold down anything I make him eat. I'm giving him IV fluids hoping this
will perk up his appetite. I know our time together is numbered. We have
been thru soooo much together. Within our 10 1/2 years together we have
been separated only 11 weeks! He waits by the gate every day at 4 pm
for me to come home. I can't imagine being without him. Gonna go give
my baby hug and kiss now. Thank you for allowing me to share my thoughts
and feelings. January 2, 2004 "Dutchess" I just want to express my thanks for finding this site. Two days after X-mas, I had to put my little momma down. I miss her so much. She is in my thoughts every day. I swear I can hear her in the house. I even smell her baby powder scent every once in a while. It will be a week tomorrow that I let her go. The hardest thing I have ever done. Before she went into her eternal sleep, I spoke to her about doggie heaven. I told her she would be able to finally rest and run, jump and see. There would be no more painful tumors, just peace and freedom. She looked at me and she knew; we had an understanding, an unspoken bond. Ours was deep almost on a telepathic level. Her name was Dutchess and she was mine. I had her cremated, which I have learned some find strange. But She was mine and she was loved and I want her where she belongs, with me. I know she is better off, at least I tell myself this, but it's so hard. Every morning I forget she isn't there, and then it hits me-she's gone. I must say that this site has helped me tremendously with my grief and in making the decision. I know it was and may be the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I know someday I will see Dutchess again, and it will be glorious. Thank you so much, Jaime Dear Ed, I stumbled onto your web site after I had already taken my dog Vince to his final Vet visit on May 8th 2004. I was actually searching the web to try to find out how to spell euthanised, uthenized, youthenised. Obviously I didn't get any further than your site. I started reading the letters that you had gotten, but I didn't see any that fit my situation. I got my dog Vincent right after I moved into my first college apartment at age 17. We weren't sure what kind of dog he was, just small, cute and kind of colored like a Doberman. He turned out to be a perfect apartment sized dog. He followed me as my life changed, through different room mates, girlfriends, and he even approved of my wife when I found her. I trained him very well. He would sit up and balance a treat on his nose until I snapped, then he'd flip it into his mouth. If he messed up and caught it before I snapped, he would immediately spit it out onto the floor and look at me apologetically. As he aged, he started losing his hearing and he developed cataracts in his right eye. Not being able to hear or see very well, everything surprised him and he would sometimes react aggressively. That didn't make it a very safe environment for our 6 year old daughter Kyleigh, or for her friends who wouldn't always treat him in a manner that they should. Putting him down was an incredibly hard decision because at age 13 he still had plenty of energy and had lots of life left in him. You hear lots of stories about how a dog owner had to put his dog to sleep to relieve him of his pain, or because he had some incurable illness, but I had to do it because he was turning into a dog that wasn't safe to have around the house anymore. Friday evening I spent digging a hole for him under one of the trees in my front pasture. I just kept thinking about everything that he and I had been through. Before I knew it, the sun had gone down and my small hole ended up being about three feet across and five feet deep. That night I let him sleep on the bed with me. (something that he hadn't been allowed to do for about eight years) The next morning Kyleigh and I spent the whole morning brushing him and letting him chase us around the yard until my 11:00 vet appointment. Kyleigh insisted on going with me to the appointment. I really didn't want her to be there to see my weeping like a little girl, but I couldn't talk her out of it. She said that she wanted to be there to say goodbye at the last minute. How could I say no to that? I was amazed that she understood what was going on, and she was so comforting to me. I was glad that she came. The vet had me take him out to my truck and I sat him in the front seat with me and held his head while he got the injection. You have no idea how hard it was to watch his eyes close and fall limp into my lap. And just as I expected, I bawled like a woman all the way home while Kyleigh patted my leg and told me that she understood and it would be OK. When we got home I sent Kyleigh in to get her mother (who had worked the midnight shift the night before) while I brought Vince out to his grave. I wrapped him in one of my old t-shirts and set him in the hole, then we all sat there and cried for a while as I covered him up. I'm pretty sure that I'm never going to be able to watch Old Yeller again. Anyway, thank you for putting this web site together to let people vent their feelings of pain and know that there are people out there going through the same thing. Respectfully, Ted February 20, 2004 Dear Mr. Frawley, I love you, sooo much muffin, my favorite little girlie girl! I look
forward to holding you again, but hopefully, it will be many years from
now! Dear Mr. Frawley , I would like to say thanks and God bless you for your site How Do You
Decide I could write a novel about Lucky, but the point is that my best friend
whom The vet told me to take Lucky home and watch him for a week or so, and
if Over the weekend we noticed that Lucky became very distant and reclusive.
He This is my conclusion. Lucky on Monday night just out of the blue made
the I would like to say that for those not knowing what direction to go Rod Lucky Rascal was not just a dog For
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