Puppy training question...I never run out of them!
I am planning on starting the puppy classes/hooking up with a schutzhund crowd in Dec. Until then, I still need help so I don't ruin puppy man.
He is getting physically very strong. I have a sense that he is just a bit of a knucklehead as well. Not dumb, just...can be a hard head. Lots of challenges, will try to outlast me on some issues. I am hesitant to use corrections on him until I have a trainer to advise, but i think we (pup and I) have reached the point where his size, strength, barking, and play desires must be controlled on leash or a disaster is imminent.
I have allowed him to be a wild man on leash, as long as we continue more or less forward motion. I want him to have fun with me.
But he's getting too strong now. He is just shy of four moths old, is now weighing close to forty pounds. He doesn't respond to leash snaps (worked for every other dog I've had). I have just a regular nylon collar for him and I WILL NOT go to a choke, so no one needs to suggest it.
When we train at home, he is good and responsive off leash. He does lots more than I thought a pup this age would do. Always for treats, although if he hears me working the other dog, he comes and copies her for no reward.
Outside the house, he's a frigging tornado. Will not pay attention and lunges and barks, leaps, makes mad dashes sideways, etc. I can't get him to do anything outside, because he is entirely distracted by everything. I will tell adults who want to pet him sure, but to expect to be jumped up on. For kids I make him sit-and he will listen to me then, there is something very gentle about him even now with kids.
We do long walks but every day it's like he's never been outdoors in his life.
I can get his attention by shaking his neck and yelling, then he is good and respectful for a few minutes. Just a shake won't do it, and just the yell won't either-yelling gets him barking at me, and shaking I think just flings drool loose from his lips.
But I feel like a big ass. Plus, this pup is super vocal-he screams like I'm throwing hot oil on him when I do this. people look at me like I'm killing him. As soon as I let go, he sits and makes noises at me, may jump on me, then heels nicely, and for a few minutes, will respond to snaps when he gets pushy. But he forgets within a minute ot two and is back to wild man.
(I did try for awhile just stopping and not going anywhere when he started getting too crazy, and we wouldn't g on until he was calm. I would like to keep doing this but it ends up that we never get to have the walk because it takes an hour to make it down the block, since as soon as we start going again he starts losing his mind again. And this pooch NEEDS exercise.).
As I said, he's getting far too strong for me to let this go on. I want him to enjoy our walk time, and I hate having to force him into anything, but he's going to drag my ass out in the road and kill me or himself soon. (I've had
huskies, but for sheer excitability and pulling strength, this pup beats them)
While I am excited by the future possibility of shaving a minute off my mile run time with him helping, I really need to get him under control on leash. How do I do this without breaking him at this young age? Should I just work out my upper body more and let him be a pup awhile longer? Is the shaking/yelling bad? As I said, this dog has a bit of knucklehead in him and it's hard to get his attention outside. He's not afraid of me at all, and I don't feel he's been dampened a bit.
Sometimes I feel like we don't have a bond like I've had with other pups. I'm not sure he wants to be a Good Dog for me. He responds best to really "in your face" playing, and corrections(peeing in the house is the only other thing he gets corrected for), etc. he likes yelling and waving and stuff. (story here about a dumb person who tried to scare us on a walk by yelling
and jumping up and down and making charges at us-puppy went NUTS trying to get to the person, he was up on his hind feet on the leash, barking like mad at this kook while I'm trying to casually pull onward. he just likes loud and active stuff.)
I feel like I'm ratcheting my personality up a few notches to accomplish things with him.
Advice, criticism, guidance, reassurance?