This is very first post so I apolgiize for the length. I want to provide some back ground
I got Benedict last June as an 8 week old pup from the same breeder as my beloved Eli who passed at age 9. I have had GSD’s off an on since childhood. I took them to classes, and with Eli, read Monks of New Skete books. Until Benedict I never participated in forums and heard about “positive training”
Now with Benedict I have internet and great forums, and read lots of things. I just found the Leerburg articles yesterday
All the reading I have done makes me feel like I know less then I used to! On the advice of these experts I now have a Gentle Leader, Martingale, Easy Walk/ Sense sation / Prong, Flat Buckle. I wear a clicker like a bracelet!
In the Clicker training class I was told to never ever use a prong and the only correction needed was to ignore bad behavior. They really wanted me to use the Gentle Leader but Benny hated it. I got him to bring it to me for a treat but he spent so much time rubbing his face to get it off that he could not focus on me and was miserable so the instructor said I could use the Easy Walk or Sense ation. Benny does not mind them, but I am beginning to use the prong (fitted correctly) on walks for safety because I only weigh 15 pounds more then Benny.
Before reading all this great but conflicting material I just gave my dogs the level of correction needed to get them to do what I wanted, once I was sure they understood. It was the same with my kids. One son needed to be verbally hit with a bat to know I was talking to him, but with the other son, all it took was a “look”. Treating the sensitive one like the first would have been abuse and treating the hard headed one like the second would have been useless. Most of the trainers in the Clicker Class and the dogs don’t seem to be as hard headed as Benny.
Right now Benny is an almost 11 month old 85 pound adolescent He was very socialized from the day I got him. I was able to bring him to work where he was around children and to an Assisted Living Facility where mo Mother lives and he got used to walkers , canes, wheelchairs etc. He knows all the basic commands and a few tricks. He is crate trained. I make him sit and wait before releasing him to get his food, or go out a door, lay down before I throw his toy etc . He never tries to get on the couch. He is allowed on the bed for a few minutes, morning and night, but gets off when told and sleeps on the floor next to me.
He obeys perfectly in the house and yard without leash, but blows me off when distracted. I am worried about his lunging at dogs that run by us with jogging owners, aggressive dogs, cats, and he has been exploding at skate boarders. When something gets him amped up it’s like I am not there. I even bought a skate board to get him used to them and Benny ended up to trying ride it and made a hole in the wall.
He does play wonderfully with frendly dogs and has never fought.
The class we begin in three weeks to prepare for the CGC does not allow the prong, but will allow the Sense-ation. Benny is great in class because the dogs are not aggressive, don’t jog by us and no one skate boards.
Yesterday I spent a lot of time reading the Leerburg articles and it sounds like I have really failed and that Benny does not see me as a leader. He loves me, but does not respect me so I need to really get tougher with him. The Leerburg dominant dog article recommends using their dominant dog collar, but I can’t see myself hanging Benny for not obeying. Everything in me recoiled. I can give stronger prong corrections but what else do I need to do?
I had a private evaluation with a behaviorist and she said Benny’s explosion are not fear based, but male posturing. She said the prong would amp him up more. She recommended keeping him understand under threshold and I do this, but sometimes things just come up on us and this is not possible. There seems to be more and more things getting Benny amped up. I use the prong to keep us both out of trouble. Benny playfully lunged ( no barking growling) to chase after two men who jogged past us a few weeks ago and they threatened us with a stun gun.
Benny is a great dog and I know he is challenging me and part of it may be because he is an intact, almost 11 month male, but I want him, for his own safety to know he must obey me, no matter what. How do I accomplish this?
The Lord is my Shepherd