First of all I applaud you for being teachable and having a kinnd attitude.
Thank you.
I admire you for trying to work through all these"pre Leerburg" issues.
So the older one is the one from the vaccine thread?
Off leash dogs is a huge problem...I have to deal with it as well.
I had a thread on protecting Eddie that you might want to read...the guys here had great suggestions for me.
You need to have a solution ready where you can stop any dog that comes at her.
I know that she is nervous that she isn't protected...she can feel you are nervous as well....the first step is with YOU so you aren't nervous...you need to come up with a combo that you know you can stop any dog...cane and pepper gel....something that will work so you relax.
If I were you, I would focus on teaching her with marker training the skills to control her.
Teach leave it, teach "no talk" teach "focus"...proof those things on stuff like balls, food, cats, and then do it for dogs...at a distance first, then closer and closer.
I took Eddie from a goat guardian with no house manners or OB to a qualified working service dog in a short amount of time..you have the dedication to do it as well.
Eddie knows it's his job to stand next to me no matter what..he has done this with dogs rushing him......lol....a while ago my husband kicked one of those huge exercise balls..like 2 ft tall..and he kicked it wrong so it came right toward me and Eddie.........
I was still on the walker then....I couldn't do anything to stop it, I couldn't move, we watched in horror as it rocketed right at Eddie's head........holding on to Eddie for balance I leaned out really far and at the last min put out my hand in front of Eddie's face and stopped the ball.
Eddie never moved..he never twitched....he trusted that I would stop the ball...even when I couldn't stop it till it was less than 2 ft from his face.
Now...Eddie has really strong nerves which helps...but it comes down to training and trust.....that is why I was so cranked up in my post about defending him.....I have to because he knows I will...I can't let him down.....
Your little one needs to know that about you as well.
That is one of the most important things you can do in her training.
For now I would focus on the training...you can't correct her for behaving this way yet..you don't correct for what they don't know.
I would manage it as best as you can while training the things I listed...just ignore it for now, till you get the other things trained.
Since she is small I'd put her in a harness or really wide collar, something you can restrain her with without hurting her.
Work on those commands lots...like 10 sessions a day lasting 5-7 min.
Be patient it will come soon.....
I would also give them both jobs in the house like picking up, helping with chores...laundry, helping your hubby pick up stuff he drops, fetching things...a tired out dog that has been using its mind to help its master is a happy dog.