Thanks Connie. I had one rottie before, and she had been gone a little over a year when I met the breeder we bought from. We loved the temperment of her dogs, and she really is a great breeder, she genuinely cares about her dogs. I know almost nothing about showing, but I have watched her show a couple times, and she truly has a great time at it, and so do the people she is helping along. It's not just about the winning. I like that about her. Unfortunatley, even though both the bitch and the sire had had previous succesful litters, two of this matchings puppies had elbow problems, and we were one of them. He was diagnosed at 5 months with elbow dysplasia. She has been great support with him over it also. We have been treating it pretty successfully, and that is a whole other story, but I tell you that background to tell you that we are not exercising him as much as we would without the elbow issues, but he still gets regular exercise, we couldn't live with him without it.
I watched the pack video, and I agree with it, but I know that I could not do the keeping the dog in a crate for week, 2 weeks, etc. I can do the restricting his movement in the house. And I have initiated periods of him being on a leash and in a down where I tell him. Still beside me at this point. I know that isn't optimum, but I would be lying if I said I would follow the crating program. I have not done all the things you mentioned, only just lately implementing the moving him out of my way, ending up with the toy(still forget to do that a lot).
I had studied so much on dog training for the year prior to getting him, I thought it would be easy. Oh was I wrong. My first rottie was missing some of the real drive and personality of the true rottie, even though she was a great dog. This little boy has opened my eyes about them. They are a fantastic breed, but they take a lot, and my husband and I will both be much better dog people when we come out on the other side of this experience. I wanted an easier dog, but I truly believe you get what you need, and we will learn a lot with him.
He has been through 4 classes so far. A small puppy class where they played loose together, another puppy class where they greeted on leash but no playing, and we also used a private trianer some who follows a lot of Cesar Millan's ways, and we took his CGC class and he got his CGC at 8 months old. The last class was retaking the CGC class at the dog trianing club just to stay out there around other dogs and people.
From day one until about 6 months, he went a lot of places with us, we would just carry him or plop him in the cart and everyone thought he was sooo cute. Then he got bigger and people started to make a wide berth around him. We had trouble getting him to stop mouthing strangers and jumping up, and then he started peeing on things and the trips to stores slowed down. Now we stick to normal dog places like the park.
When we first got him, he came into the house like a holy terror. I didn't expect this little monster who bite holes in our hands and feet and ran from one thing to another trying to chew everything up. Day 4 he had me in tears, literally(can you believe that) and I called the breeder for help. SHe said roll him, so i did and he settled down quite abit. We implemented some new rules, and we concentrated on house trianing(he peed every ten minuted for the first month, wow what an expereince, I can laugh now)It took a bit for us to bond after the rough start, I contemplated sending him back and letting the breeder home him to someone more experienced, but I knew if we didn't step up and learn what we needed to, I would never have the confidence to try again, so we buckled down, and I started studying more, and trying, and one day I realized just how much I loved him. I wouldn't have traded him for the world, bad elbows and all. I was gong to do whatever I had to do to make him into a success. And we are still plowing away at that.
A lady at class told me about leerburg as a place to buy a leash, and I read for two days I thnk when I got here. I like Ed's mixture of positive. SOme of the positive books I read had nothing to offer for problems, like 100 pound dog talking back when you tell him no. And people kept telling me that rotties needed a special kind of firm hand. I also believe someone is the leader. That doesn't alway fly well with everyone.
We take a walk every morning(20-30 minutes), my husband and I share depending on work schedules. Part of the walk is structured on the left side heeling, part is wandering sniffing. I only work one or two days a week, so he is with me almost all the time. I have found an improvement in leash walking once we left class as it seemed he was better able to grasp it in a low ditraction environment rather than class, even though the majority of time was practicing at home, once a week we went into that environment.
I do not think he truly has respect for me, and that worries me. He started backtalking me a while back and I cannot get him to stop. If I step towards him when he does it, he will scoot out of the way, but not stop. If I turn and walk away, he stops becasue I am not engaging him, but I feel like that is letting him get away with it. He will not get off a bed if he gets into our bedroom and hops on the bed. I had difficulty teaching him off excpet in context of jumping on a person because of his elbows. I always pulled him off butt first. I also cannot get him to release things he picks up, and I have resorted to squeezing his nose to get him to open his mouth, which I hate, but the trick they teach you in class to open their mouth by pushing a certain spot does not work on him with his super strong jaws.
he doesn't show all the dominating qualities. I can take a bone or toy from him with no growling, etc. SO can my Mom who came to visit and met him first time last week. He waits hwile i walk in or out the door, and he has perfect food manners.
My first hope for him is to be a great pet and companion. I want him to be an ambassador of the breed, he certainly has the temperment for it, and he is gorgeous. He would have knocked-em dead in the show ring. I am reading a book on tracking from leerburg but am going to hold off on teaching him until all pulling is under control. Tracking would have only been for fun on our property as practice, and out and about for fun. I do want to do therapy with him when he is older, and technically I have a disability, so I had hopes of him being able to be certified for service work for me. That remains to be seen. Right now I can't get him to walk down the aisle of a store without hiking his leg on something. He seems to not even have to stop, he misses one step and he's peeing.
I know it sounds here like I am listing all his faults, but he really is a great dog, and only our skill will set the limits on what he can achieve. I am hoping that this forum is the bginning of us being able to finally overcome some of the issues we have been dealing with, and getting on track with his having more respect for us. I know that is key for him to see us that way. I also bought the obedience video and the remote trianing one, so we are set up in that way. Sorry I wrote a book, it is hard to figure what is importsnt to include and what is not. I hope that helps.
One question, how do I teach him to have respect for my space?