I am at my wit's end due to a very specific manifestation of separation anxiety. As you may read from the details I'll describe below, like most dogs that suffer from separation anxiety this little Mal will bark and whine. That is managed fairly well with a bark collar. She is not destructive as some dogs are and she isn't hurting herself in efforts to get out of the crate. The issue that has worn me down is her loosing bowel control from (I think) becoming so stressed out due to confinement in the WIRE crate. I specify that the wire crate is the problem as she does not soil the airline crate, as I'll point out in detail down below.
Here's the particulars, which may be more than you choose to read. My situation specifically is with a young Mal with a for the most part unknown background. Let me give you the history and current specifics. When I first got this dog she really resisted the crate, turning to try and bite me as I'd put her in. Once she was in she'd spin circles and bark non-stop, which I pretty much ignored and managed(somewhat)with a bark collar. When it was time to take her out of the crate she was reluctant, snapping if I reached in to bring her out or even to pet her. I over came both the in and out of the crate with food and positive reinforcement. I can now open the crate door, say "crate" and she'll go right in, most of the time. Sometimes a little pull on the collar is needed. She always gets excited when it's time for her to come out, but I make her lay down and stay before I open the door. She is very compliant with this.
If she is sleeping in my son's room she will behave fine while loose, sleeping on the floor without a problem. So long as the door is closed, she stays in there and is quiet until I go to get her, which is anytime between 5:30 and 7:00 A.M. If let her sleep in there with the door open, without fail she'll come and wake me up at 4:00. I have in the past when she's done this told her to "platz" and she'll lay by my bed until I get up, but I wish she would stay in my son's room even when the door is left open. I can have her tethered on a leash to my son's bed with his door open and she is fine then also, secured to the bed but not barking or whining. On occasion we leave her in an airline crate in my son's room overnight. Like clockwork, again, at 4:00 she wakes me up with whining and spinning. Thinking she may need to go the bathroom, despite the fact I know she can hold out until 8:00 as she has when she's not in the crate, I take her out and walk her for a while. She generally looks at me or lays down, which just irritates me at 4:00, especially because I know that she can go all night without bothering me all the time I leave the door closed or leave the door open with her tethered to the bed.
Since I touched on the airline crate I'll mention, too, that at times during the day we will leave her in that same airline crate from time to time. If we leave the house she whines and spins like crazy to the point we've had to secure the crate so it can't be moved, but she keeps it clean for the several hours she is sometimes confined. Likewise, if left her in my son's room loose or with run of the house, she doesn't soil anything.
To summarize, so far, the problems are that:
1)if she has run of the house overnight she always is waking me up around 4:00 by nudging me with her cold nose.
2)if she's in the airline crate she makes a racket requiring attention at 4:00.
yet if she's in my son's 10x12 room with the door closed,or tethered to the bed with the door open, she's fine all night and stays quiet.
I made sure to specify above that it was an airline crate that is inside of the house. In the garage is a wire crate, and that's a REAL nightmare! She will enter that wire crate even more readily than the airline crate, and she'll behave if she's in it and I'm working outside or walking past her every once in a while, but if I leave her in there and I'm not around, which generally means the garage is closed except for an 8" gap to allow air flow as the fan is blowing on her crate, there's no telling what I'll find. Every time I leave her in such a manner and then come back anywhere from 30 minutes to a couple of hours, I fully expect that when I open the door I'll be met with the smell that she's crapped all over the crate, again. Sometimes that's the case, sometimes not.
The other night we went through the regular routine where she was in the airline crate in my son's room. At 4:00 she woke me with her barking/whining/spinning. I took her outside, walked her and after she just laid down on the lawn, I put her in the wire crate in the garage. As soon as I got back into bed she started with the whining/barking, so I went back to put the bark collar on her. A little over two hours later I went to check on her and sure enough, she had crapped everywhere. I do mean "everywhere" as her spinning propels the mess outside of the crate.
If I leave her alone in the house for a short time, as I have done when I know I'll be back in less than 30 minutes, I can tell she has gone spastic looking out of the windows as is evidenced by the blinds being moved and even the sofas being pushed askew, but she doesn't soil the house. If she's outside when I leave or return she checks me out through the gate, but she's laid back and not agitated. It seems it is almost only when she's in the wire crate that she becomes agitated, starts spinning and whining to the point she gets herself all worked up and looses control of her bowels, or that's my guess anyway. One of my first thoughts was that when she gets me up at 4:00 I'd put her into a small airline crate that barely accommodates her so she cannot spin around and get herself as worked up. Bad idea; she managed to make a mess in that,too,and even fling poo out the door.
I have tried using a tarp to enclose the wire crate to more closely resemble the security of the airline crate, but this has not brought any greater success.
That's an outline of the issues. I've typed much more than I had intended, but any suggestions on how to overcome this would be much appreciated. Not only is this a real pain at home, but with this behavior I certainly cannot have her travel with us. For her to accompany us on trips I need to have the confidence that she will not only settle in a crate both night and day regardless of its construction, but that she will also keep it clean. If we can't get her to that point, her interaction with our family's routine both at home and as we travel will be much more limited than we would like
Always looking for training avenues close to home. Any suggestions?