An acquaintance once acted in a dangerously unsafe manner with a firearm in my and two of my dogs presence. Suffice it to note he, without prior warning, lit up his 12 gauge to make noise.
I was getting the two dogs out of the truck when he fired, and out of a long ago reflex, I hit the deck. Probably the suddenness of the discharges, five shells, and my immediate reaction and attendant adrenaline fueled anxiety, caused an ongoing anxiety in anything loud from thunder to the mere racking of a shotgun.
It took quite a while but they no longer display serious anxiety bordering on panic. The sudden gunfire incident triggered a reaction to thunder, though Thunder no longer bothers them but the racking of a shotgun still gets their full attention and watchfulness,
The process of trying to get them to not be overly anxious or fearful, with the attendant panting, movement and hiding, and hyper vigilance, took some trial and error. Initially I tried to get them to confront their fear of thunder but found that to be unproductive. Then I tried to provide overly solicitous and protective confidence building comforting. That failed too.
Finally, I simply ceased to be overly concerned about how they would react to thunder and acted normally, without fear, with confidence and normalcy, and the dogs, over time, seemed to derive some comfort and confidence in my outward and visible lack of concern for the suddenness of a thunder clap. Now the sound of thunder does not result in demonstrated anxiety.
Firearms discharge took a different approach. I took a .22 to the cabin and had a neighbor go about 150 yards away and shoot a few times, much like the inciting incident. I acted normally, and continued to do stuff not reacting to the shots. I did that a few times over the course of a few weeks, and when the dogs seemed to not react to the shots, I moved to 125 yards, and repeated.
Over the course of the summer, as the dogs demonstrated less reaction and more tolerance of the shooting, I continued to reduce the distance between me and the firearm discharges. I stopped at about 25 yards, and the dogs seem to be OK. Along the way I introduced the sound of random 12 ga. rounds, shells for the purists.
It took time, and my moderating my reaction to their anxiety by either trying to get the dogs to face their fears or to try to overly comfort them. It seemed to me, that the real determinant in addressing the issue was me not reacting to thunder or gun fire in the presence of the dogs. I concluded that the dogs couldn't be forced into facing their fears or coddled into being less fearful. In the end, it seems to me that my reactions reinforced the dogs anxiety, and that by not reacting the dogs seemed to gradually be less concerned.
Now a smart, aware dog does not ignore surprises but how I react to a surprise in the presence of the dogs can amplify and condition anxiety responses, I think. If the dog is afraid and wants to seek shelter, I think it works best for me to simply ignore the behavior, more or less, and continue on normally. No reinforcement of the behavior by actions likely to reinforce the unwanted behavior.
Makes me sound hard hearted but...
I don't do firearms with the acquaintance any more.
Too long. Anecdotal. Take it with a grain of salt.
Mike A.
"I wouldn't touch that dog, son. He don't take to pettin." Hondo, played by John Wayne