When I got back from Iraq, the VA diagnosed me with PTSD.
Between that and hearing loss, tinnitis and major lower back issues (all due to being blown up), I am rated at 60% disabled by the VA.
The Army, and society do a terrific job of convincing all soldiers that they will most assuredly get PTSD from combat. Over the duration of your training, pre-deployment, pre-R&R, pre-return and every 30 days after your return, you have to sit through briefings about PTSD.
After sitting through all of those briefings, and then turning on the news and hearing constant news reports about PTSD, after awhile, Veterans get pretty convinced that if they DON'T have PTSD, there's something wrong with them.
Then they get taught that PTSD ruins your life. It's a horrible, damning sentance.
We fail to tell Vets a few crucial things.
Having PTSD is not an all-or-nothing equation. To borrow an analogy from the foremost researcher in the field of combat psychology, LTC David Grossman (RET), PTSD is more like being overweight.
A person can be a mere 5 lbs overweight. Barely noticable. The weight may effect them in some mild way in their daily lives, but it really isn't a major problem.
Then you have people who are 100 lbs overweight. The weight will probably kill them. They are painfully aware of the burdern 24-hours a day, and it impacts dramatically everything they do.
PTSD is somewhat like that. And in the past, we were only able to diagnose folks that had 100 lbs of PTSD.
We've gotten better at noticing and treating PTSD, and now we're finding guys that only have 5 lbs of PTSD.
The second thing we fail to tell our Vets, the thing they failed to tell me when I came home and began struggling with PTSD, is that it isn't a life sentance.
You can have PTSD, and it can be very much like getting the flu, or measles. It can really, really mess you up for awhile. I know it did me.
You can be pretty damned sick.
BUT, you can also get better. And guess what, now you've built up an immunity.
You CAN get better. And you will be a stronger person for it. PTSD is
NOT a life sentence, and it isn't a permanent thing.
You get help, you fight as hard to overcome PTSD as you ever did in combat, and you get through it.
When you come out the other side, just like when you've had the measles, you're immune. The next time, it won't get you down. You've built up a stress immunity. What doesn't kill you, really DOES make it stronger.
I have seen the system abused; trust me. There is no lab test or CT Scan done to prove whether or not someone has PTSD (or any mental health disorder). It's all based on what the patient reports.
After attending about 10 breifings where the signs and symptoms of PTSD are repeated over and over, how hard is it for someone to lie? Not hard at all. Returning Vets generally get the benefit of the doubt. I've personally seen people scam the VA with PTSD claims.
Myself, I don't collect my Disability money from the VA. No double-dipping. No VA money on Active Duty.
I could easily request a Fitness for Duty board, exagerate the extent of my PTSD, say my back hurts too much, and end up with a Medical Retirement from the Army, and go live comfortably off an Army Retirement, Social Security and the VA.
PTSD isn't a life sentance.
When we approach PTSD with the idea that it is a disability, we only HURT the Vets that have it.
We need to look at PTSD as part of the
VERY NORMAL reaction to combat trauma, and as part of the healing process. It's a process, not a disability. By treating it like a disability, we encourage people to accept the way things are and never get better.