Connie, I'm not sure how to solve the issue. I like to think I'm good at coming at a problem from all angles, and seeing both sides. However, coming up with solutions isn't my forte
I think that people on this forum also come at the issue from the type of dogs we keep: typically dominant, almost all high drive, possibly sharp, most with fight drive to some extent.
Most pet dogs are not like this, most pet dogs are goofy labs with low to zero fight drive. Are all like this? No, certainly not, but many are. I would say the majority are, at least in my area.
I've been to dog parks a fair amount. I rarely actually
go in, only when I've scouted the area for some time, make sure there are no bullies or asshole owners, and usually when there are a few dogs. Mostly, however, we work on obedience, counter-conditioning, or re-activity at various distances from the fence. From these experiences, I've seen a lot of dog interactions, and I've seen maybe 1 fight.
The worst dog fight I saw was when I was working with Conservation Canines, and a little lab mix STARTED a fight with Gabby, a pit. Gabby would have finished it if we weren't there, despite the 8 other dogs ganging up on her. She would NOT let go of that annoying little lab mix, and I don't blame her. I've never seen anything close to this at a dog park, but it is one of the reasons I don't want to tempt fate.
2)Most people have NEVER had a negative experience at a dog park. I know MANY people who have taken their dogs DAILY for YEARS with no problems.
6)Most people don't understand dog body language.
Those two statements are not compatible. I've seen people who think their dog has a "best friend" where their dog is really just the bullies favorite target.
Oh, I agree 100%. I often point out to my girlfriend which dogs are miserable and which are bullies, both of which mostly go unnoticed to the owners.
I don't think that because something is popular is necessarily an indication of it being a good idea.
I agree.
People have kept dogs in cities and suburbs for a long time before the proliferation of these off-leash dog parks--which seem like a phenomenon of the last decade or so.
Urban dogs have always been walked or jogged with for exercise, and urban parks are great places to hike with leashed dogs. I live in a city, 3 blocks from a large urban park, and that's where my pack goes for a several-mile hike. In my neighborhood there are also at least 3 of these "dog parks" and I never see the dogs doing anything in there. The owners sit on benches, not interacting with their own dog. Maybe the ones near me are just bad dog parks.
You are lucky. Not all people live in such close proximity. In addition, while I live in the suburbs and have the benefit of a small yard (good for tug, not so good for tiring fetch), ALL of the STATE PARKS in my area BAN dogs, even LEASHED dogs. Incredible, but true.
Here is an example of why people LOVE these places:
(from the facebook group "Australian Cattle Dogs")
"For the most part, Bentley is pretty good for a 6 month pup. However, there are some days he is a holy terror and today is one of those days. We're off to see how many miles of walking it takes to get him manageable again. (I think the other dogs put him up to it just to get an extra walk in.)"
(followed by)
"Success!!! Only 2 miles and 45 minutes at the dog park to remove the holy terror and bring back my sweet boy."