Hi Michael, nice to see you back.
My hatred of dogs is conscious and reasonable.
I don't like being told that I have to purify my soul and seek solace with the dog gods to avoid bad karma or whatever. If I understand what you are saying, dogs are predatory creatures (true), and the only way to win them over or ward them off is to be more successful or more daunting predator.
I can certainly see why you would take issue with your interpretation of what I wrote. If that's all you got out of it, I'm sorry, that was not my intent.
I chose one aspect, that was mentioned a few times previously, that you appeared quite offended with and I expanded on it, hoping to add a little clarity to what was being said.
You're making very bold statements about your "hatred of dogs" and now expanding that to particular owners.
I commended you on your advocacy (and still do) but when you're looking for information on a subject you're advocating against, you need to open to what you might hear. I, in no way, was telling you to "purify your soul and seek solace with dog gods". Quite frankly, I could care less what you choose to take issue with, for whatever reasons. I was simply explaining some very basic things when it comes to interacting with dogs.
I think you've found a lot of common ground here though and I believe you could out there in the real world too.
How can I approach someone who is so anti-social that they have a dog at large?
Doing so (going to their house or sending police their way) puts me even more in harms way, with the dog there and a likely armed and territorial person who doesn't like being corrected about his dogs, esp if he will receive a fine or lose a dog.
I agree, when you put it this way, I wouldn't want to chat with these people either.
Personally, I would take a much different approach (I’d send my husband
) But seriously, I’m not usually out there thinking that people are "armed and territorial" and the furthest thing on my mind is that I’m going in there "correcting" an adult.
As an individual with a very basic need and right to feel safe, I also have an ability to communicate and share my experience with these owners that potentially don't know there is a problem. I'm not going into it assuming they want to harm me, that they know precisely when I will be riding by and somehow put their dog up to it.
I think Jody makes a good point:
Most people who let their dogs run loose are just ignorant and lazy, not malicious at all.
If you can arrange a meeting somehow, share your experience. If you want to remove yourself, tell them you have a friend that's been having a problem riding their bike down the road. There's a dog that keeps chasing them and they're quite frightened it will attack. You'll probably get something like, Oh, it couldn't be Bruiser, he's real friendly.
I'd say something like I'm sure he is, but he also likes to chase bikes and he's scaring people, he might even get hurt. Can you think of anything we can do to make it safe and enjoyable for everyone to use the street. Blah, blah, blah.
If he's totally unreasonable, thank him for his time and at least you’ve got a documented attempt at rectifying the situation. If you or other members of the community decide to contact the authorities, you'll have a lot of details that they'll be interested in.
But in my experience, most people don't want their dogs causing problems and are not out to harm others. They're just ignorant of what their dogs might be up to and generally too lazy to care - until someone points it out to them. When the authorities come knocking (should it be necessary) at least they've had a chance to think about the situation and it may be just what's needed to change it. Reasonable folks will work with you and try to rectify the situation.
If it truly is a person that wants to harm random people, using their dog or other means to carry that out, I think you’ve got a much different situation on your hands.
As you’ve seen with the interactions going on here, I think everyone is learning something. I sure am, hadn’t thought about a child going "left" when it was hollered at them but have noticed that people move and it's often right in your way. I bike around our simple neighborhood with a dog and people can be so annoying.
I’m going to think about that one. Maybe use their bell collars. Maybe not, I could see that causing other problems, but something to think about for sure. Thanks for that.
Common ground aside, I've got to stand by my previous post, which again was really nothing to do with bad karma or seeking solace, it was about common sense. You go to a bar looking for a fight, you’re gonna get one. You're approached by a dog and he's getting hatred, fear and aggression off you, many will react accordingly.
Sorry don't have any books to recommend but there's nothing like putting knowledge into practice. You can read about body language but I'd suggest some real world practice as well.
Do you have any friends with dogs, or a local shelter that may let you interact with one or two. Or again, maybe a dog sport club that you could watch training and see if someone can explain what you're seeing. Maybe someone has a bike reactive dog you know, you could provide the training distraction and get a good understanding of what's going on for the dog. Extremely controlled, with all the safety precautions in place - perhaps on the other side of a fence to begin with.
I know, a lot more work than packin' a pistol, but I'm sure if you put a little effort into the issue, you'd be a great advocate for both worlds.