Hi All-
I've packed in as much as I could into this post to try and answer the typical questions I see from new posts. Sorry it's so long.
I have a 10 1/2 month old male Australian Shepherd we adopted from a rescue when he was 10 weeks old. This is our second Aussie and we based our decision to get another on our success with our first. (The first died at 13 years old of a heart condition about 2 years ago).
So he instantly bonded with the family pack. I work from home, so his early training was good and he clearly recognizes me as the pack leader. Spends most of his day in my office and he gets exercised daily during lunch. I keep him by my side all the time. He is fixed and has been in a crate since day 1 for night time, when we are gone, or when I need to be on a conference call. He loves the crate actually.
His obedience training was easy. He knows his commands (sit, stay, place (I call it go night-night), down, heel/wait, stay and come.
At about 5 months old, we noticed he was completely against meeting with or socializing with other dogs. Mind you he had not been exposed to negative experiences with other dogs so this was new to us. His vet visits became (and remain) a complete nightmare with him 'losing his mind' the second he alerts or sees another dog.
We went to a trainer (a real one, not PetCo). By the second class, we were told we would be having separate sessions because my dog was becoming such a distraction. We worked privately brushing up his obediance skills. Although not an expert, she theorized he might have mental imbalance.
This behavior has been consistent for the last 4-5 months. We are on a walk, we see a dog, I change direction or cross the street. I've worked with trying to change this behavior with mild success. I've had him to the point where we see the other dog, he sits and looks to me instead for a treat. I practice with a number of dogs in my neighborhood from behind fences. Been doing good and he won't bark or pull the leash. I even had him politely greeting my neighbors on walks. But lately it is like a switch has been thrown. He forgets what's he's learned and will go crazy at the same dog or human he saw just the day before. Only after a hard correction will he calm down. Then 10 seconds later he would be back at the same thing.
I've invested in the Dogtra collar and Ed's DVDs on collar training and dealing with aggressive dogs. Been employing the techniques and have had some success. But the overarching issue is he suddenly 'forgets' and I am back to square one- despite me being consistent in both training and corrections.
Over the last week, he has bolted twice out the door (something has never done before). Once he shot out after a UPS truck (which is at my house a lot, so it was not a new thing). I caught up to him a 1/4 mile away using the "Come!" command. He turned and came right back to me. Go figure. Mind you, I have him trained to sit there all day if I wanted him to while holding that door open. So this was new to me.
The second time we had just finished a walk and some recall training on the E-Collar, so he still had it on. My kids were playing in the yard with the same friends he sees on a regular basis. However, I have always kept him separated or on a drag leash with me the kid's friends around due to his unpredictability. Never had an incident and he always enjoyed a head scratch and a belly rub by the other kids under my supervision.
The door opened when I wasn't looking and he shot out and started barking wildly and jumping on one of the young children. It wasn't his 'play with me/happy to see you' bark, it was the bark and body language he uses when he sees another dog.
He ignored my quick commands as I ran over tried to stop him. Having the remote still in my pocket, I gave him a three quick nick corrections/commands with no result. I finally hit the 'constant' button with a loud NO..COME! and he backed off. I've never hit that button before and he yelped and immediately came close enough for me to grab his drag lead and remove him from the situation. He was clearly unnerved and I sent him to his crate to relax.
He’s also bit me twice through the skin. Once when he was barking at a dog through my fence (I have a privacy fence) and I was grabbing his collar. Recently I was correcting him as he alerted and barked wildly when he saw another dog. He decided to take it out on my calf with a quick bite and then returned to barking.
Like other posts I've read, he is great with our pack. Loves our indoor cat and clearly respects my commands (until lately). He isn't protective of his food, toys, or other objects. There is no growling, etc. But he is becoming more than a handful and I just cannot seem to manage it lately. I have spoken with an animal behaviorist and two other trainers. All have called him 'reactive' and said I will need to manage this the rest of his life. My vet even questioned if we are prepared to deal with this forever and to keep him muzzled. They too said he might have a chemical or neuro imbalance of some sort.
I am not truly committed to managing a dog this way for the next 15 years and cannot risk having him biting a child. It's no fun for anyone when we go out to family events, the park, our lake house, the dog has to be left at home. Not the 'dog life' we were used to with our previous dog- who we trained in less time. I’ve put a solid 3 months into working with him daily and I at a loss. I really don’t think I could re-home him based on these behaviors. This latest incident has me close having him put down.
Any thoughts?