I have a tendency, of late, to be, perhaps, too matter of fact and even terse. I apologize in advance for my tone.
It is unacceptable behavior for any one of my dogs to jump up on a person or to act inappropriately around another dog. It has been my experience, and since my dogs are GSDs, that kind of 'aggressive' behavior scares some people half to death.
So, jumping up behavior gets dealt with directly and without negotiation. No treats to dissuade the behavior. No soothing commentary.
I do not let dogs loose around people unless I am sure they will immediately comply with my basic commands. I don't think it is cute for a puppy to jump up, for instance. And I consider that to be different from commanding a dog to act...
Now, in so far as I really train the heck out of NO as a stopping command, if a dog even looks like it is about to jump up I sternly and emphatically command NO. And in that instance there is no treat for responding. The act is not acceptable, period. The NO is a correction, and I do not offer a treat for a correction.
If a dog is polite and goes to a person and sits on command for a pat on the head or to give the person an opportunity to avoid contact with the dog, I offer praise and maybe a treat as reinforcement for the manners.
I don't train a dog not to jump up on a person. Basically, I train a dog to come, sit, down, go, enough, and NO. And I like 'pfui' just because it goes along with an attitude of disgust when the dog is out of line and I want to act a little.
If I have a leash on a dog, I try to anticipate an action and stop it before it can get off the ground, no pun intended. I don't let the dog act and then correct. But I don't mean to imply I meanly correct the dog. A tap on the leash and a NO. And, if necessary, I short leash, which is to say I take a lot of the slack out of the leash and reduce the distance between my hand on the leash and the collar. I am in control.
The whole idea of a dog jumping up on a person or a child is simply not acceptable. I want it stopped before it starts. But in the first instance, I don't let my dogs loose around people until I am sure they are very solid in my command compliance.
People visiting my house are not subjected to my dogs. Humans are always first in the pecking order. If a dog is brought into the picture, it is brought in under control. I want a guest to be impressed by the behavior of the dog not intimidated or frightened by it.
Most importantly, a dog can get into trouble jumping on some people. Friends have been known to sue, and put the dog at risk.
Sometimes there is a behavior that just has to be dealt with and is of such critical consequence that the dog has to trained to recognize the boundary.
Whether it is by raising a knee, using a leash, pushing the head of the dog down, whatever, the behavior has to be dissuaded.
If a dog jumps up, it gets corrected because it did not comply with NO. NO means NO. No negotiation. NO means stop right now. Period.
And the dogs don't seem frustrated. They certainly alert. They are not inclined to cower. But they do comply with the command NO.
Mike A.
"I wouldn't touch that dog, son. He don't take to pettin." Hondo, played by John Wayne