This comment or comments are by way of betraying how old I am and how fixed in my ways I recognize I am.
There are a few words I don't use when working with my mutts, and one is retreat. To retreat, a person has to recognize a circumstance it is imperative to avoid or one that is so distasteful as to shy away from.
In my experience, those recognition's are mood shifting, and the mood shift translates to behavior, body language, perhaps palpable emotion, and travels down the leash to my mutt.
I want my mutt to be confident in me and my behavior. I believe my bearing directly influences my mutt. If I am wary, I believe the dog will be encouraged to be wary or maybe insecure. I may not be expressing myself well.
When I walk one or more of my mutts, I do not retreat when encountering any other dog or dog person. In my experience, too many dog people seem to think their dogs are people, and that they exert some kind of mind meld with the creature. A shared brain, perhaps.
If I think the situation might rouse my mutts, I stop, sit them, and wait patiently for the individual and dog or dogs to pass. I do not, normally, invite interaction, am generally polite, and demonstrate control over my mutts. My mutts do not need new best friends.
I walk with purpose, and if I want the dog to be tuned in to me I engage in 180's to gently remind the mutt I am setting the pace and direction of travel. I am not a kite tail dog person, in that I expect to be the tour guide and not a passenger, and I expect the dog to get that. I see too many dog people with their leash arm outstretched, tension on the leash, and the dog pulling the person down the street. Not a fan of that.
When encountering another set, I shorten the leash, and if needs be, I sit or down the mutt or mutts. I stay in control of my space, and my mutts. I really don't care about the other set, unless there is an intrusion into my space, that I must deal with, not my mutts.
I have found, over the years, that treats can lead to reverse training. I have had dogs come through here that seemed to think that everything they did deserved reward. I'm more a head pat, chin scratch, belly rub, or verbal enthusiasm dog person. I want the dog to want to work with me, and see me as both leader, and provider of security, food, shelter, toys, etc. When I provide a treat, it is a treat, and randomly offered.
An anecdote. When neighbors' dogs get out and they don' return to the pleadings of their owners, I often get a knock on the door to help get their dog back. I generally get one of my mutts, though not Sam, and go out. The mutt attracts their dog, they play a bit, I recall my mutt, their mutt follows, and I take the dog by the collar and present it back to the usually embarrassed owner.
I think my mutts live high on the hog. The quid pro quo for that life style is to respond to me when I address them. I don't negotiate, I demonstrate. I don't expect the dog to be clairvoyant, so we work on our relationship, and not relationships I have no control over.
All that by way of offering that walking with your dog with confidence and purpose will achieve positive results. And retreating might send the wrong signal down the leash.
Obviously, dangerous circumstances require action but how the action is undertaken sends a message to the mutt, in my opinion.
I did mention I am old and fixed in my ways.
And so it goes.
Mike A.
"I wouldn't touch that dog, son. He don't take to pettin." Hondo, played by John Wayne