Tracey, I totally agree with most of what you've said, however, diverting to the grinning fools with toddlers and unruly pups isn't helping much either.
I think those people are pretty much universal. There have been many threads on here discussing these exact same folks we encounter daily, here in North America.
There are also many different segments of the dog community, people with differing opinions of what they want or feel they should do with their dogs. Your dog show scenario is also very reflective of what goes on here. A life of crates and vehicles and groomers, with very little outlet to be the actual dog that it's being prized and winning ribbons for.
Not a life I would choose for a dog under any circumstances. Nor would I support puppy mills or dog fighting or back yard breeding or any other number of things that go on out there.
To subscribe to the accolades of a person, whose philosophy he's clearly stated he does not respect, is no different than a puppy mill owner telling me my dog has great breeding lines or a dog fighter telling me that my dog could stand his own in the ring.
Empty words coming from a grinning fool who, as you've so eloquently put it, is doing nothing more than condoning the creation of these "nightmare dogs who are only wheeled out to..." Choose your poison.
He does not support this show process but, in many ways, appears to be deeply involved in it, to the point he's actually "proud" of what one of these judges, who knows little about his breed, has to say.
And while I agree that giving back a 3 year old child's ability to love dogs again and brightening a disabled person's day is truly noteworthy, how many unsung heroes do we have out there doing this exact same thing. Dog's quietly change people's lives every day.
Unfortunately, doing it in the public view in your Cruff's Dog Show is only giving that process more noteworthy exposure. Something he doesn’t condone right?
I don't know, it's a bit confusing and seems like a lot of diversion that's being inappropriately placed into the discussion when he doesn't seem to have answers or an inability or unwillingness to comment on the observations that have been noted.
And I totally agree, it's tough to have faults pointed out, especially when you thought you were doing such a good job to begin with. I think we've all been there.
Change is tough and it often takes a 360 in your thought process to put it into action. It also takes a strong person to stick something like this out but in this case, I would have to agree with Ian. I also question the intentions of that perseverance.
The genuinely caring folks that post to this site have the patience and offer the expertise and guidance to allow those transformations to happen. But when heads keeping banging up against a wall and there's no sign of making a dent, just more concrete getting poured, yeah it's time to start painting that wall with graffiti.
OMG, look what you made me type Tracey.
Time to go meet a victim for Vince's handshake command. No worries folks, he’s muzzled where necessary.