I did know it was something I couldn't let him get away with, though, and so it made me realize how very important those pack ground rules were. I followed them religiously, and I did tether him to me (HUGE help, IMO).
...all of the games we played had an element of role status.
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These days I do sometimes have to mildly correct him. But I still follow the ground rules. I think that if I didn't follow them I would be giving him the idea that he could assert his will more (and challenge me more) and as a result the corrections needed would have to be MUCH stronger.
Does any of this make sense? I got a billion phone calls while I was trying to type this!
It made perfect sense, as usual
Carbon sounds like such a wonderful exciting pup to have around. You must have a lot of energy to deal with him! Lol.
I SO agree with you about the ground rules! I think they should be printed out and glued onto a puppy before the puppy gets sent to its new owners
The games having a role of status is also a very interesting concept. I've always played rough tug-type games with my pup, still do, but as you said, I made sure that I reenforced the pack structure with the games. I let him win all the time, but I was always the one to initiate games (especially rough games) and I always decided when the game was over (and when the toys were to be handed back to me, haha).
If he wasn't tired/stimulated enough and as a result got into my face barking, biting, growling and shredding clothes
, I did correct him though. It just didn't seem right to allow him to decide when to play rough, especially when warned with a NO that now was not the time to play.
I also didn't want him to get the idea that if he fought back hard enough and aggressively enough that I would "back off" and give in to his demands for attention and play!
Anyway, just so you don't get the wrong idea, I didn't go around correcting him like an angry maniac for everything!! He probably got a total of 4-5 one-pop prong corrections throughout the 2 month period when he was 5-6 months old, but that was it.
No compulsion was used in obedience or in anything else, everything was initially done very motivationally.
I've only recently started using corrections in obedience for commands he's really solid on, but even so I make sure he's always working in high drive and having a good time!
I did always go the redirect route first when he acted up and I adjusted the exercise/play/stimulation accordingly
But yes, as you said, ground work first and foremost. Isn't it great when your pup/dog eventually respects your rank enough to automatically get out of your way around the house? Or politely waits for you to go out a door, through a hallway or down the stairs first without being asked and then quietly follow behind?
And all that done through groundwork alone, without harsh corrections of any kind?
I'm so glad I found this site in time for my pup.
I had the chance recently to see some of Taro's littermates. I was shocked to see how out of control some of the higher-drive pups were!
This one female pup (now 11 months) would charge around and SLAM into her owner, knocking her over!
The pup would even do that slamming routine to complete strangers
When her owner tried to give her a leash correction or to grab her and bring her back to her side, the pup went out of control, barking, growling, biting her and jumping all over the place. Her owner just had no control, it was nuts.
That female pup was acting just like mine did back when he was 5-6 months, only it was 100 times worse. Seeing the "what could have been" image made me that much more grateful to have found this site and implemented the techniques in time!!
The sad thing is that this beautiful female pup has tons of prey drive and is bursting with energy and confidence. She'd probably make a phenomenal and very flashy competition/sport dog in the right hands. She reminds me so much of my own pup.
Now she'll probably end up being sent back to the breeder (hopefully) or given away/dumped in a shelter because her owners did a crappy job raising her