Thanks all! More questions to follow, but I have to say...Man, I love this board. And Yuko, I'll try not to disappear again but I seem to remember a long patch of time when there was even a "Where the heck has Yuko been?" post!
I had a run of a busy schedule & bad luck combo, but I think I've seen the tail end of it now (fingers crossed!). I"m going to be PMing you soon so I can gush about what a hottie Aja is now! Holy cow! Love those saucy bi-colors!
I have to admit, I was a little sheepish posting about this, as I've given many people advice on DA dogs before, and I've even had them PM me to tell me how well it all worked out! HA! This whole Carbon fiasco has been a reminder for me to stay humble and not take anything for granted. Sheesh, you think you know a dog...
Anyway, Howard, you're right. I really do think the prong pissed him off. While I don't think that Carbon would ever go after me intentionally, I have no doubt that if I had lost track of where my body was (luckily, I generally gain sharp focus in an emergency) I would have been chomped.
And while I say that I don't think Carbs would ever challenge me (he's a squeeky love ball to me with zero signs, ever, of handler aggression and is highly compliant to me) this episode has shown me that what I think will happen isn't always what WILL happen. He's only 13 months old now...the fun isn't over yet!
I've been bitten a few times over the past 15 years, so I'm not going into it with any fear...just respect for an big animal and the knowledge that there will be consequences if I'm stupid. I'll suck up a bite if I have to, but I'm planning on having as controlled a situation as possible to prevent the possibility of that happening.
My plan is to have some trainer friends who are going to bring a strange dog over, and keep the strange dog at a distance...close enough to get a response from Carbs.
I'm thinking that I may have the lead draped over a branch for leverage, just in case. An 85lb, muscular thrashing and driven dog is no joke, I discovered. My feeling is, like you all said, I have to do this right the FIRST time, or there will be hell to pay.
And no worries Jenni...when it comes down to it, I won't feel sorry for Carbon. This has to be dealt with. I love the hell out of the dog...and I mean this dog is pretty damn fantastic on so many levels...but as I see it there are two issues here:
1.) If I allow Carbon to be this dog aggressive it will seriously impact my life and his...and my plans for him will go up in smoke, not to mention just a decline of quality of my life with my dog...what we can do and where we can go.
2.) The biggest problem as I see it is that despite his deference and submission to me in all other ways...the fact that I could not control him or his behavior (even if it was only once) is a sign that I do NOT, in fact, have his complete respect. If I don't have that when the s&%t really hits the fan, then everything else is just an illusion of control.
This is why I'm going to be the one to choke him out if it comes to that. A couple of the burly male handlers I know have offered to do that for me, but it needs to be ME, and Carbon needs to know it was ME. Still, I will have experienced people with me.
BUT! I'm not doing anything for a week or two. I need to be as educated as possible for this. Maybe I'm making a lot of it, but if you fail to plan then you plan to fail, right?
Questions for those of you who have had to do this:
After it's over...how do you interact with the dog? Do you just ignore him? Act natural, indifferent? That's what makes sense to me. And do hard dogs shake this off, or is there a period where they're withdrawn afterwords? Just want to know what to expect.
I'm willing to do this, but as always, I want to be fair to my dog and I ultimately want respect, not fear.
And I'm getting some conflicting advice about whether or not to call it a day after the first bout and test him again another day, or if we should continue the exercise until I get zero response from Carbs in response to the other dog. Any suggestions?
Carbon is a rockin' good dog. I want to do this correctly. I do NOT want to screw him up...so any detail is one I'm interested in.
And once again, thanks all. I appreciate your input...A LOT!
And Carol, yup...Carbon's trying on the big boy fur now. Wasn't it just last week that he was 8 weeks old and crying in the crate?!
Carbon