I guess I am the 'OP' eh?
This dog is 15-ish months old. I found her walking down the side of the highway when she was 3-4ish months of age as a skinny pup. Had her spayed before her first heat cycle.
She lived with me and my 6yo dog (that has been in our house hold since about 6 months of age) on our horse farm.
The dogs lived together well for the first year. The 'pawing dog', Roxy, adapted well on the farm - learned some life lessons about electric fencing, not getting under foot (humans or horses) and not toying with the barn cats (my crew can take down a fox).
After about - oh I dunno I can't remember now - 4ish, 5ish months in a crate she adapted well to house life too. She only urinated in the house once, she went thru some really minor chewing of things (or stealing things that didn't belong to her), never went thru any kind of barking or destructive phase. And other than being 'puppy' she really was not 'annoying' in the house, until recently.
The two dogs lived a full year of 'liberty' in teh house (well after puppy crate training time), and liberty outside at the farm for several hours a day with me.
They ran, and ran HARD for hours and hours and hours with one another. So, naturally, when they came in the house or even with in human contact (up at the barn) the bulk of their spastic energy had been spent on one another.
I had never done any kind of treat giving to my dogs. The only 'formal' behavior training was leashing up to go for hikes (etc). They'd initially both pull a little but once we found or walk groove both would get into the zone and walk reasonably fine. While both would notice things, neither got out of control around other dogs, cats, people etc on our outings. They both rode in the car well. They both learned things like 'sit' and 'stay' or 'wait' by a wanted experience that came after (ie sit and wait for me to open the car door, sit and wait for me to open the house door, stay while I get your food - that kind of thing).
As far as 'pack' behavior the best I can say is I assume that is my leadership and some basic understanding of dogs, which is very limited. I knew enough not to let them be wild at feeding time (we had a routine/ritual and a set spot outside where they ate at calmly), we didn't rough them up in the house, no getting up on the furniture (well on occasion we'd bust them when we were not 'around' but they were not invited for cuddle fests on the furniture with the humans), they were not allowed in my bedroom.
Being out on the horse farm I don't concede to the dogs, I can't. They need to be mindful, get themselves out of the way, etc. They have learned to give everything a wide berth (people with horses, the cats, trucks, tractors etc).
NILIF - well - I dunno. I didn't really GIVE much to my dogs and like I said, after playing with one another for an hour I really didn't NEED much from them. If I wanted to pet them I did, but half the time they were sacked out in the sun in the barn aisle way or conked out on the living room floor.
They were, for the most part, polite to be around. I wasn't a treat giver, I'm not a 'momma loves her pookie pookie kissy kissy' person with my animals. So I'm not sure how to answer this. At feeding time, they had to 'back it up', 'sit' and 'wait' to be fed.
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BUT that all changed when out of the BLUE, like a bolt of lightening, the dogs go into a terrible fight one day. Now their whole life styles have changed, and Roxy is not expending nearly as many calories as she once was - thus all this 'annoying' human related behavior.
I didn't have a crazy pawing dog 3 months ago. Yeah she had 'silly energy' but she spent that on the other dog running for 3 hours a day, going hiking on the weekends etc.
And I also never gave her treats. Now I'm treating her for this that and the other (trying to learn this marker training) and now I've got a 'greedy grabber' on top of it. I'm the treat dispenser AND the boredom relief (I suspect).
The dogs live separated. They used to both have about an hour and a half to romp on the farm while I did chores before I went to work, then we'd feed the dogs, then they had some down time on the porch while I got ready for work. Then they'd have 3-4 hours of free/liberty time on 6 acres in the evening while I did farm chores.
Now each dog gets about a half hour outside in the AM, and about an hour and a half each in the evening.
I try to walk Roxy on a leash for about 15 minutes in the morning while I do the chores I can do with a dog tethered to me, and then I try to play and active game at night (usually tennis ball ChuckIt or a flying squirrel) for about 20 minutes before feeding time, and then coming in the house for the night.