CJ,
first of all, that you so much for your reply. There is so much information in it so I will try to be as concise as I can answering it.
I completely agree that the dog is in charge on this barking thing. I have been trying to say "quiet" the second I see any inclination that he will be barking but there are simply too many times that I react, as you say. I am not quite sure how to turn this around. Have him tethered to me at all times?
I never thought this was cute on the other hand. We have always lived too close to other people to be able to think barking was cute and we never knowingly reinforced this.
My husband has severe health issues and is fairly limited as to what he can do, where he can go, etc. He is rather isolated and so we actually encourage people stopping by on a whim because otherwise he might not see anyone for a long time. Because all of his friends are very busy we encourage them to stop by our house for five minutes or so even when they are just driving by going somewhere else. If we wait to plan this it will never happen.
Now that you are talking about training the friends, I realize that I need to do a better job training them. I think I will write a letter and give out to all of them. My husband has many friends so that would probably be the best way to do it.
CJ, he seriously hates sitting on a pavement. He is hairless and I can tell you, this is really what it is. His skin is very sensitive and he will sit on surfaces that don't hurt his bum. The minute it's too rough or wet he will pretend to sit holding his butt 1" or so off the ground acting like I am torturing him. Seriously!
Pack structure is going great. Just this last Friday my husband was telling me that for the first time the dog sat down by himself for him when he took him out of the crate and sat down by himself again outside while waiting for my husband to close the door. This is a huge improvement for us!
Yes we do practice NILIF.
I was trying to get him used to the treadmill to give him appropriate amount of exercise during the winter. Again, with my inexperience I may be doing more harm than help. I will focus more on OB then.
I don't know if he really knows what "quiet" means. I have been doing it for maybe two months now? Sometimes he will continue to bark depending on how loud/excited/long/close the noise is. If it is someone talking right next to the house I have to stand over the crate and say "quiet" several times. I did not realize I should not be doing this so I will try what you say.
Thanks so much for mentioning this, I really need good feedback. As I said before, I may think I am doing the right thing at it's completely wrong. I thoroughly appreciate you giving me all this feedback.
Sorry for being a little edgy about the fact that I don't take them out when the weather is bad. Sometimes people are very opinionated about things and taking dogs out during bad weather seems to be one of them from the threads that I have read.
Because of the lack of hair their skin is extremely sensitive. This makes any bad weather a sensory issue first of all. They will actually duck in the rain and try to dodge the drops at first. When they realize it's useless they just stand there and won't move. If I don't put a raincoat on them they will not even go potty.
If it's raining too hard with too much wind they will not even go unless I put them under the picnic table for protection from elements.
The little one does not even do wind. She will simply plop on the ground and won't move.
I have some pretty serious winter gear for both of them. When we first got Chili his ears got frost bitten during a potty trip. If they feel warm and protected they will go for a small walk but I am simply too afraid of any more frost bite so I keep it short.
So thanks for the understanding. Usually when I say we have hairless dogs the first reaction is "EEEWWW! you are crazy!" so I do tent to be a little on the careful side when talking about it.