I’m not really getting stressed out with Forrest, it’s understanding and trying to figure out what’s best for him that can be stressful. I’m not heartbroken either he is a great dog! He is a loyal companion, and he melts my heart with his sweetness.
I do try the best I can to describe exactly what I’m doing, and I think not explaining it in-depth detail is leaving an impression that may not be accurate. But I do try to re-explain something I may feel is being misunderstood. Anne and Kristine please try not to get worked up, we have time and I don’t want you to leave me in the dust, because the message isn’t getting through the first time. I do re-read the post. Sometimes my first thoughts when initially reading a post and the ones after are completely different as my comprehension isn’t all that great. So the more often I re-read the better the understanding. Your messages are getting through, but sometimes just not right away. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />
If I had to rate Forrest’s level of fears, 5 being the worst of his fear and 1 being the least amount of worry. With everyday house stuff it would be a 1, when he has new encounters of family friends in the house its a 2. Walking him outside in the neighborhood starts off at 3.5 and then drops to a 2. The car going back and forth from my driveway to the neighbor’s driveway directly across from us right now it’s a 3, a few days ago it was a 4. The day I walked Dakota away from him and my daughter when we were outside was a 5. If he is placed in the yard alone it’s a 4.
When I mentioned that I tried a sterner approach I was referring more to my demeanor and was taking what was suggested of being the one in charge (acting the part). Not my corrections, although if I felt one was warranted for undesirable behavior I would up the anti a bit with a correction especially with Dakota. She is very in your face and likes to I guess you can call it head-bunt me, but in the literal sense as well. But my training sessions with them are kept up beat and fun.
I also tried to explain that the different position of the collar had more of an affect on Forrest than before, making him more sensitive to the corrections that were the same type of pop as before.
Forrest is what I called an easy puppy because he follows verbal direction well. But he is slow to respond if there is anything else getting into his brain. It doesn’t take much to distract him from what he was doing, which will make him slow to respond to a sit command. It’s like he is about to and then pauses. It can be as simple as my wind chime blowing in the breeze. But also he just spaces out. It’s like he has no thought at all. Very different than Dakota. You do have to remember that I had Dakota first and she came with a handful of challenges for me. I had no idea what a high drive dog really meant. So I learned the complete opposite of Forrest before I got him. When he came to us, I knew very early on he was timid, but he was so easy in comparison. He always came when called, he stopped stealing shoes once he realized I didn’t like it. He was and still is very affectionate, and silly. And really didn’t give me any trouble with house manners. He was so easy that leave it, sit and come were the commands I used and he didn’t require me to say any other commands. But for whatever reason that changed, I guess he got older and seen Dakota was getting over and he figured he would try it too. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
I did notice that Forrest responds to a command better out of a training session. I think the whole thing may be too white collared for him. Which goes to your point Anne that I’m not motivating him during that time. But I don’t think it’s anything I’m doing or not doing, I just think he may not like it, whether he feels bored, uncomfortable or stressed I’m not sure.
I will take what you suggested Anne. When it comes to his diet, you have made this point clear and I will look into something that will help his liver to up his serotonin level. And I am also considering the DVD you mentioned. I am interested in a lot of these suggestions and I don’t want you to think I’m blowing you off, but I got to know what I’m purchasing before I purchase it. And financially I have to be reserved. Believe me if I could just purchase them I would, but I can’t. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
I do use other corrections besides popping a prong. I tried the tap on the shoulder, doesn’t work, the “hey”, only sometimes it’s effective (Forrest responds better, Dakota barely at all). A nudge on their side or a jerk on the flat collar will get their attention. I have never corrected my dogs with a prong where they would yelp or pull away from me, that is not my style. Nor is it required. One thing I have cut back on is asking commands, rather than mini training sessions throughout the day. This has something to do with not setting up a failure of a command being given. But I don’t think Forrest has a low pain tolerance, I don’t think he has a high pain tolerance either.
I did read the article “The Theory of Corrections…” just the other day, I found a lot of very helpful info in that article. But thanks for suggesting it. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
What is flooding? <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
Barbra it’s never too late to continue your training. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
How long have each of you been training dogs? I have for just about a year, with very very little knowledge prior to these pups.