Have to just mention a couple things.
Any good veterinarian will NOT in ANY circumstance let you into the x-ray room while they are filming. To let you get the dog accustomed to the room, maybe, but NOT while they are shooting films. It requires protective gear and a radiation badge that you don't have and they can't give you. I am pretty sure this is actually illegal -- it sure as hell is dangerous.
I can also understand why a busy veterinarian would not want to take x-rays on a dog that is not sedated. Get everything set up, and the dog starts fussing. The vet has now wasted films and time, and now has to take dog out, sedate, wait for sedative to kick in, get everything set up again, then take films. I DO have a problem with a vet who wants to knock them out totally with an anesthesia when a light sedative is often more than enough. Trigger happy much?
And I question the living daylights out of my veterinarians and other health workers, and I will sure as hell continue to after what just happened to my dog getting a tooth pulled.
After reading "The Food Pets Die For", with the entire CHAPTER on how Hills, Iams, Purina, etc. sends ITS EMPLOYEES to teach nutrition courses at vet school, I am VERY skeptical of veterinarians offering me nutritional recommendations. Just look at the crap they sell in their waiting rooms. I trust the folks that work at my local independent pet food store and the advice of my agility instructor WAY more than my vet's advice when it comes to food. That's because I /know/ the knowledge that those people have. They've dealt with food allergies in their own dogs, they've tried numerous kinds of kibbles and canned foods, and in the case of the pet store folks, they are being paid to know the ins and outs of the brands of food and the supplements. I don't know who trained my vet in nutrition. I probably don't WANT to know...
It just reminds me of when I saw a Science Diet truck with "Nothing is better for your pet!" printed in big bold letters on the side of it. I think we discussed that once on these forums.
Sure is better!
I can understand vet's reservation's about feeding raw. Let's face it guys: THE PUBLIC IS STUPID. We are not 'the norm', and by "we", I'm talking those of us who have the brains to post here, those of us who train our dogs in SOMETHING regularly and give our dogs a job, those of us who at least -try- to understand theories of dog training and nutrition. Compare us to the idiots with their flexis and haltis on their 200-lb designer Pit Bulls that are charging down the street screaming "Spike, no no, heel!". These are the people who take PetsMart training classes. They are a whole 'nother species from us.
We know raw is not hard to do but you DO have to put some thought and research into how you are going to do it. That is WAY more effort than most people want to put into their dog's existance. If people put any effort at all into what they fed their dogs, they would be reading articles online, or would pick up a copy of a decent book (again, I'll promote The Food Pets Die For, just as an example) and they would learn the crap that is in the Kibbles N Bits they are shoveling into their dog's muzzle.
You have to bear in mind that veterinarians see a lot more of the halti flexi Spike group than us. They aren't used to catering to us.
Come on now. The general, dog-liking but not dog-training public can't even remember to bring a poop bag out on a walk with aforementioned Spike. The vets realize this and also doubt that people can manage customizing a raw food diet for their dogs.
The key to a good vet, for me at least, is that when they realize you know what you are talking about, they treat you like you know what you are talking about. This was the straw that broke the camel's back for me at my last vet. I told them I wanted a PAIN MED for my dog, not an anti-inflammatory, which is what they gave me (rimadyl), since my dog was in, you know, PAIN.
In closing, the OP's vet sounds like a true arse, and I absolutely would go elsewhere.