Hi April, welcome and congrats on your new pup. Nice to have a malamute owner on board. Boy lots of questions… lol. And I almost missed your post. I'm no expert but do own and have quite a bit of time in with these northern guys.
Have you had dogs before? When it comes to training, these guys are as smart as all get out, when they choose to learn what you’re teaching.
They’re not guard dogs by any stretch and rarely get used for any type of service work or sports other than those Kiersten mentioned that involve pulling, because of the training issues that most face. The ones that you are starting to realize very quickly.
Free shaping works great with these guys. Catch them in the act. Once the treat drops from the sky, you’ll get some interest. They will usually try and repeat the behavior. Pulling, forcing, corrections are all going to have him going in the opposite direction very quickly.
You mentioned you had an issue with your boyfriend. Can I ask what that was and how you fixed it?
Crates are a wonderful tool that a well exercised pup usually loves and has no problem adapting to. A malamute, especially a younger one, needs to be entertained in there though. They get bored so very easily and if he knows what’s coming, with the two hours while you’re gone, yes, it’s probably causing him a great deal of anxiety. Frozen Kongs, Treat Toys, any treat dispensing toy – the more challenging, the better. Bones are good but they can get bored with those fairly quickly too.
With what he’s gone through to this stage I think I’d get a whole new crate and start over. These are my favorite for these guys:
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They use their paws for everything and if there’s any chance they can stick them though, trust me, and as you’ve seen with a baby, they will work their way out. Reinforce any of the wider, breachable areas with clasps that will remain facing outwards – if they can swing them in they will get them undone. I just used twist ties but my guy was pretty good from the get go – not to say he didn’t try though.
April, I think the worst thing you can do right now is shower this guy with too much attention. It’s the toughest thing in the world to do because they’re such fluffy little teddy bears. They’re aloof for a reason though and do really well on their own if they’ve got toys to keep them entertained. Don’t dilute your leadership role with a lot of unnecessary cuddling, petting and idle chatter.
And although they will seek out attention, trying to engage with you, it’s usually on their terms. The less you’re fondling and coddling him, the more interested he will become.
I’d be working on his recall right now. You need to choose one word for this. I use his name but it can’t be diluted with anything else. Probably best to chose a new word if the current one has already resulted in him blowing you off. You need to set him up for success - every single time. Can't stress that enough. If it's an iffy situation, don't use it.
When he’s heading your direction to begin with. Like coming out of the crate, coming to his bowl for dinner, coming out of the vehicle towards you.
Not sure if you have a fenced yard but it sounds like he doesn’t like leaving it. Put him on a long line, have your boyfriend hold him out by the street and you stand by the door (the one he doesn’t like out of his sight). When he’s really exciting and pulling to get back, use your command word and have your boyfriend let go. Any time he’s balking/backing up before you go out on a walk he’s primed for this training. The walk can take back stage at this point – it doesn’t sound like he’s really enjoying it right now anyway. He’s probably going through a bit of fear stage.
Engagement is another story but this is getting really long already and I just wanted to dispel a few of those heavy coat myths and maybe help you with the brushing.
With so little natural aggression in these guys, rolling on their back and vocalizing are a classic protest. You’re probably getting a few paws in the face too.
Because brushing is such a huge requirement with these guys, you really need to get him to love it. Their dense, fine, often long puppy coat hairs can really hurt when you’re brushing too quickly and they’re getting pulled. I find a wide, thick pronged rake works best at first. You can get into the heavier pullers once he's used to it. Slow it down a lot, be really gentle and at first, treat after every swipe. Make it a really fun time!!
As far as their adaption to the warmer climates, I’ve never seen this to be a problem. The northern coats are truly unique. Unlike the shorter coated dogs Greyhounds, Dalmations, Dobermans, Beagles, these guys “have an ability” to grow a very long, dense, thick coat. As with most animals, their coat will grow in according to climate they need to become accustomed to.
If it’s going to be a hot summer, my guy sheds down even further than my shepherd does the first few months in spring. The coat becomes fine and breezy. It may look long but all of that undercoat and a lot of guard hairs are released. My guy was so short this last spring it almost had me worried but it start to grow back almost immediately, longer and thicker than ever this year. I think it’s going to be a cold winter.
It any case, once that puppy coat is gone and the more mature coat starts growing in, basic common sense, as with any dogs in heat should really be no different. Their incredible creatures in their adaptation. If they could only live in the north that’s the only place you’d see them. Not the case at all, they’re all over our vast continent.
A bit of a novel but again welcome aboard. And please, as Connie said, post any specific questions you have (maybe one at a time). We’re here to help.