May 20, 2011

My 12 month old female German Shepherd does not like to be pet. Is this petting issue abnormal?

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Cindy,

My 12 month old female, German Shepherd, Bella, does not seem to like to be pet. In fact, she does not seem to like to be touched at all--this includes grooming. As a puppy, whenever I tried to pet her she would turn and nip at my hands. I would always tell her no and thought that she would grow out of it. She hasn't. I have found that after a good walk she will allow me to brush her without it turning into a wrestling match although I still have to use a lot of treats.

I found out that I was pregnant a month after I got Bella and so she did not get the attention I would have liked in the beginning. I have recently watched the following videos and have tried to implement as much as I can. However, as a mother of two small children (a two year old and a 2 month old) I feel limited in what I can do with my dog especially in the winter when I can't put the kids in the stroller and go for a walk. Bella spends much of her time in the back yard.

Your Puppy 8 Weeks to 8 Months
Basic Dog Obedience
Establishing Pack Structure with the Family Pet
Dealing with Dominant and Aggressive Dogs

Is this petting issue abnormal? I thought the grooming segment in one of the videos with you and your dog (where you are teaching the dog to allow you to touch his paws and muzzle) was helpful, but I'm finding Bella is getting somewhat mouthy at trying to get treats from my hand or will jump on me. Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks,
Courtney
Cindy
Cindy Cindy's Answer:
Some just simply don’t enjoy being touched, it’s not uncommon.

It may be that your dog just doesn’t enjoy body contact or it may be a bit of a leadership issue where she sees herself as being in charge. For a dog like this I would make sure she’s being handled according to the Groundwork program on our web site and since you already have the pack structure video, I’d review that and make sure to implement the techniques shown. The mouthiness is a respect issue, so beefing up the structure and rules will help.

I’m afraid there is no easy or quick fix for this, it’s about putting the time in with the dog and I know with 2 small kids this is not easy. Your dog is also what I would consider an adolescent and that can be a challenging time in a dog’s life, they are always wanting to test boundaries (much like teenage kids).

I hope this helps.
Cindy

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