Hi i know my gsd mix is dominant with other dogs. he is always putting his head over their shoulders, ears up, tail up, eyes narrow, etc and always humping, taking toys off them, always trying to be first being pet. he was like this with my exs dog and my dads bitch.
And he is castrated. He also is very big on scenting and marking, peeing and scratching everywhere we go.
He is not aggressive towards me at all, but he gives me the impression that he thinks he is in charge.
is their any smaller signs i could be missing?
He stares at me alot, im inside and he outside and he is just staring at me trying to make eye contact, rather unnerving really. he looks confident, eyes forward, tail up, looking "big"?
I am aware that dominance is highly over rated like.
But he is also nervous aggressive, as far as i no, but im starting to wonder if he has any dominant aggression in their aswell.
When people come over he will bark and growl at them, standing in the doorway and wont let them in, and once they in wont let them move, he doesnt look scared when doing this, as his ears forward and tail up etc And if someone goes to touch him he puts his ears back and eyes widen a little bit and he snaps with no warning at all. which i find alarming on its own.
I went to town with him yesterday to take him to the vets, and i was an hour early into town as it was only bus available. Anyway as it was market day and swarming with people i took him to my friends shop, to kill time.
I had put his muzzle on by this time of course, but literally as soon as we got in the shop he started.
my friend is a dog person and was bending down and offered him a treat and tried to pet him and he lunged at him repeatedly with no warning. he was alert, ears slightly back, eyes narrowed. Then he lunged at a customer near by, then when we got to the vets he lunged at the vet. he gives no warning.
I have had him a year now. Still have him from an old relationship, from which we got him then.
Went halfway accross the country to fetch this lovable puppy, a friendly family pet. She waited till we took him away then told us he was nervous aggressive and said not to bring him back to her or she will kill him.
So when with my partner we thought we could handle him, actually didnt see alot wrong with him, he either likes you or he does'nt.
When people came round we put him in the kitchen with other dog, We couldnt rehome him or afford a trainer. (before we honestly didnt believe we needed one as we expected a lap dog really).
Then i split up with my partner, And moved to my parents house, he is fine with my family etc, never had people round so didnt see a problem plus still couldnt afford training as i was on benifits from the lack of job from moving etc. but i didnt think it really mattered, we didnt see anyone.
Anyway i met with my dad who i hardily ever see, and went to his home, he loved my family their, but he started becoming aggressive as described above to new people he didnt like. he got on with alot of people, (you just have to let him come to you). But he was dangerous to those he didnt.
I decided then (which was around a month ago) that i would either rehome to an experienced dog owner who had experience with nervous aggressive dogs or save for lessons, whatever happened first really.
Anyway i will hold my hands up that rehoming was NOT a good idea whatsoever. STUPID beyond belief even!
Anyway a yound couple came forward assuring me down right that they would take him to a trainer and they had experience etc but within three weeks he is back again, they were just time wasters.
Anyway that was thursday night..........And after yesterday im a bit weary about what action to take. i can't out right afford a trainer right now so im asking for advice so if i come accross this situation in the mean time im at least prepared for it.
I was very worried yesterday as he is a big dog and im 5 ft 1 and i was stuggling to hold him, i didnt no what to do in that position, apart from tell him off but it will probably make things worse.
I want to no what im dealing with, or have at least some idea in the mean time, wheather he thinks im boss, which will make commanding him easyer. lol and what action to take.
Sorry this is so long but i just want to make sure you have everything.
I no i have been stupid not to take action sooner, so please be gentle.....