Hello, dear forum members;
Sorry if this is going to be long but I have to describe what is going on. Please do not tell me that we have bitten off more than we can chew-I already know it.
Me and my husband have recently adopted a 9 months old Akita from a private party (not a shelter). She has been with us for 2 months. I am 33 y.o., but seriously disabled, and we have been looking for a dog for awhile to train as an assistance animal, and I kind of felt bad for her (she was heading for Animal Control in 2 days) so we got her. She is a purebred spayed American Akita. She exhibited dominance when we first met her (she knows some commands but was jumping, mouthing, pushy, etc.) but I thought it will be easier to fix as I had dogs before ( GSD and a dachshund, for many years when i still lived back home in Russia before I moved). My hubby's family bred Dobies.
Well, we have been battling this creature for 2 months and she does not seem to get it. She has been severely neglected at her previous home, left alone in the backyard for hours, rarely walked, was flea-ridden, not trained to heel or to come, she was allowed everything in the house (slept in the bed with owners, apparently nipped them, was never corrected) and grew up into a monster. We did not know she had aggression until she showed her true colours. We have started with her incorrectly (gave her too much freedom) and ended up being bitten. She guarded her food (tried to bite my husband and bit my shoes), she started a fight with me over her bed, growled and nipped for correcting her , etc.
We have immediately removed all the toys and her fluffy bed, got her a huge crate and a prong, started her on the groundwork after discovering this site...she has been thru 2 weeks of isolation, we got her a prong collar, did everything per Ed's instructions. When we started to allow her to be on the leash in the house and started to marker train her a little, everything went fine for a month (she is so intelligent) and then she got aggressive again. (She tried to prevent me from picking up her leash to correct her for not leaving the toy alone).
I know that alpha rolls are not cool, but at that moment I was scared and had to pretty much strangle the lights out of her -I am, I repeat, disabled, and I had to defend myself from this creature. It was scary. She left mark on my wrist with her teeth.
We have started the groundwork again. Her crate is in another room, she is there alone, I walk her and feed her. Noone pets her or talks to her. The problem is, she gets better for a few hours (proper body language, submissive and tolerant) and then it starts again, puffing up, threatening poses , etc. Even in her crate she often watches me with obvious irritation when I stand there after she gets her food.
We are doing everything seemingly correctly (very calm with her, she sits and downs before a meal, she is not allowed to communicate with other people and dogs, EVER, she walks on a prong collar with me, she walks in and out of doors last, and does respond to corrections if needed) but she is a very, very hard dog, she barely feels them anyway. ) We go with it by the book. Regardless, she has been sitting in this damn crate for over 2 weeks now and does not seem to be much better. I give her 5 short walks a day (3 potty breaks and two 30 minute walks). I used to walk her for hours but that was before our groundwork attempt.
What are we doing wrong? Please, if somebody checks this part of the forum once in a while, maybe you could give us some advice...I really, really don't want to put her down. She has good traits too (she loooves kids), she is friendly with strangers (albeit she attempts to be very dominant with them:-(, she shows concern when I feel physically bad ( behaves better and listens when I am sick). But it all pales before a scary concept of "handler aggression". We spent sooo much money on her already, and I am on state assistance. She is fully vetted, up to date on shots, eats great grain-free food, walks on a prong clipped to a Dom dog collar just fine. We crate-trained her and broke her habit of peeing in the house.
We bought 2 Leerburg DVDs ("Dominant Dogs" and "Family Pack Structure"). We are working. We can't really afford a private trainer, but of course I would love someone to come in and simply evaluate her in terms of how realistic our goals are, really. She is 11 months old now and growing. She is of course an incredibly beautiful dog, as all Akitas are, but these people screwed her up so bad i honestly don't know if we can fix their mistakes. Another problem is, after she and already 3 slip-offs like this, I honestly don't trust her that much anymore, and now it is becoming my problem, too.
I was sent here from Akita Forum by a very nice lady, who led us onto the Leerburg site in the first place. If somebody has a word of advice, I would be enormously grateful !