Wow! How time flies these days! I wanted to thank Stephanie, Sarah, Al, Matt, Rhonda & Susan for great (constructive) advice & also for understanding ~ these folks are the reason that I come here. Regarding the 'sharper-tongued' posts...I have thick skin. ;o)
I hadn't read all of the posts that applied to my original query & when I did...I thought it best (at this late date) to respond in an effort to clarify things a bit.
The problem that we experienced w/Cozi was an escalating, ongoing & troubling issue (hence the reason for seeking advice). When my husband would come home from work...Cozi would (fairly immediately) grab onto his pants, shirt, skin (completely unprovoked). Most times...he would tug & growl ~ often breaking skin, which resulted in blood shed. It was NOT cute & I did not view it as puppy play/normal puppy behavior. My husband was the ONLY person that Cozi would treat in this manner.
Believe me...we attempted many other methods prior to the Bitter Apple method, to absolutely no avail. We put him in his crate, attempted re-direction w/his favorite ball, took him for a short walk, immobilized him, ignored him, briefly held him up off the ground ~ all of these methods were ineffective.
By the time I began to consider the Bitter Apple method, I had been 'consistently' applying these alternative methods w/o the benefit of any positive effect. Believe me when I tell you that I struggled w/the Bitter Apple method for quite some time ~ I did not like the idea at all. I read everything that I could find about the positive & negative effects...& I also attempted to find an alternative product (something w/o alcohol in it).
I had gone over Ed's DVD (Your Puppy 8 Weeks --> 8 Months ~ Track #19 ~ Behavioral Problems) several times up to that point (I also took notes!) & I was aware that his recommendations were for 'chewing' issues. Cozi was ripping/tugging John's clothing while it was ON his body...therefore, I thought that the Bitter Apple method might be worth a try. Ed recommended twice/day x 1 minute for 3 days to imprint the displeasure of the taste on the puppy. I did not follow the time recommendations (because Cozi had not & has never destroyed or chewed any of our personal property ~ aside from John's clothing when it was ON his body ~ as he's always under my supervision ~ even now). I also found it maddeningly difficult to hold a BA-soaked cotton ball in his little mouth for more than 10-15 seconds! Consequently, the BA method wasn't utilized for long & we soon abandoned the method (2/3 of the original bottle remain!). We did spray it on John's clothing & his skin. This did NOT deter Cozi at all.
To Al...it was my mistake for not clarifying the information contained in my post. We did not utilize the BA method constantly...& it was fairly easy to determine 'puppy playfulness' vs. something more serious. He ripped John's clothing w/his sharp little teeth...he tugged at anything attached to John...shaking his head like he'd do when he played w/his favorite toy. Often, he'd draw blood, as well as growl quite passionately. All of this behavior was completely unprovoked & only directed toward my husband when he came home from work (or from where ever).
Yes, Randy...the cotton ball 'thing' is on the DVD...the only difference is that I used it in a situation other than the one that Ed described in his DVD.
Maisha & Rei...my intent was not punishment what-so-ever ~ as his behavior involved the destruction of clothing that was ON my husband's body, including his socks...I tried the BA method, as nothing else that we tried up to that point was successful. A 'mouthy' puppy is an expectation...a guarantee, I agree! THIS behavior was quite different (& cause for concern), IMHO. BTW...there were 'OTHER' parts of my husband that Cozi would go after, as well ~ if you know what I mean...this was certainly NOT funny!
Lastly, to Mike...my original query was prefaced w/an apology, w/regard to the possibility of 'missing' this particular issue somewhere in the forum's archives. I did not come here & simply post 'willy nilly'. I lurked here for MONTHS before I finally registered & I purchased 3 of Ed's DVDs long before I ever received Cozi. I spent MONTHS & MONTHS reviewing, researching & talking w/professionals to better prepare myself for my new puppy. Also...I distinctly took ownership of the issue being 'my fault'; however, I had no idea (past the interventions that I had already tried) how to resolve the issue. To clarify one other misunderstanding...I stated that Cozi was 'tethered' from the time he came home to me at 8 weeks ~ NOT that we had been using the BA method for 6 weeks! You had mentioned that your 'patience level' had been 'brought down' by 2 posts ~ thus your sarcasm...apology accepted.
I suppose that I should have been more comprehensive in my original post, as I have been in this one ~ please accept my apologies for that. While I have made mistakes in the past w/dogs that I have raised...it is my most sincere goal to avoid making those mistakes (in addition to learning from them!). Cozi is very much loved. He is a very happy & healthy puppy. And...I try to do right by him every day.
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On a more positive note...Cozi obtained his CGC a few weeks ago! I was very proud of him! He has been an exceptional puppy & he is quite an awesome addition to our household!
Does he still misbehave when my husband comes home? Absolutely...but not to the extent that he once did. John has not demonstrated an interest in training Cozi ~ therefore, it is a little difficult for me to correct his misbehavior aside from removing Cozi from my husband's presence for a short time after he comes home. I am hoping that, as Cozi matures (& w/consistent training) he'll chill out more & more (as he's already done).
Again...thank you to all who have provided advice & insight.
Dana.
"Think occasionally of the suffering of which you spare yourself the sight" ~ Albert Schweitzer