Quote: Erica Acer

One more question already

When I take him out of the crate in a relaxed calm state, do I bring him towards the company?

I would just let him out once everyone is settled and the initial excitement is over and let him do his own thing. And make sure that the guests know to ignore him. People really have difficulty following that simple rule though, so really drill it into their heads.

I'm also looking forward to the advice of more experienced people as well.

Hey Tabatha, fancy meeting you here

UPDATE:
Well, after trying the suggestions from here I am happy to report that things are going VERY well for Elmo.

It got a bit difficult for me to crate him and do the constant explanation to people who came over (and its been a busy few weeks at the cottage) so my dad and I put up a few signs, one right where one would park when they come in, and one on the way down the hill. Its a picture of Elmo looking sad and it says "I get scared when ppl stare at me, please don't talk to or look at me"

Since it is only family really who comes over to visit they are very respectful of this.
I havent been putting him in the crate much (but it is right there still) when I'm there thanks to the signs, instead I leash and carry on with what we were doing. He doesn't even pay any attention to people coming down the hill.
Thanks to Rambo our 4 month old Corgi baby being there at the same time as Elmo all the time, people are far more interested in seeing the puppy who is all about meeting and greeting right now.
Thanks again for pointing out the "obvious" and I will keep reporting updates if things change at all. So far so good though ;o)

I love the sign idea, and congrats on Elmo's progress!