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How To Have Your New Puppy Play with Kids

By Ed Frawley

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One of the most common questions we get from new dog owners is about how to get their puppy to interact with their small children. Here is a typical question that came in from my free management course:

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I'm trying to pour through the website, course, and videos looking for how to socialize my 9-week-old puppy with my 6-year-old son. Because the puppy is very playful biting, I'm having to keep them away. When and how do I let them play together? What steps do I take? Everything I see on here is about keeping kids away from dogs for fear of dog bites...but how do I get kids to play with the dog? —Kelly

Sometimes we want things for our dogs and kids that are not possible, unrealistic, and in many cases, dangerous. That's what you're facing.

A 6-year-old child is not going to safely play with a 9-week-old puppy without getting chewed on and scratched. That is just not going to happen.

When puppies are with littermates, they bite, chew, and jump up on one another. When they move in with a family, they think that's how to interact with the new family. Why wouldn't they? That's all they have known since the day they were born.

The problem is, which I am sure you already know, puppies have sharp needle baby teeth. They are like little land sharks.

Let your puppy bite your hand and quickly jerk it away. You will see WHY they are often called razor teeth. Puppies keep these baby teeth until they lose them at 5 to 6 months of age. Then they grow their adult teeth, which aren't as sharp, but still dangerous.

Puppies also have sharp nails that scratch even when the puppy doesn't mean to.

It's our job to teach them how to interact with humans. That does not happen overnight. It takes months, not weeks.

Artie in an ex-pen — Artie in his Ex-Pen

In the meantime, puppy owners need to practice good management techniques. That means learning how to use ex-pens, dog crates, and puppy leashes in the house. Learning to put the cute puppy away when they are starting to become overly excited is the first challenge most new puppy owners struggle with. It's important to manage your puppy to prevent bad behavior from becoming a habit.

They also need to teach these kids not to do anything with the pups unless you are right there to supervise. This interaction always needs to be on leash so you can control the situation.

One of the best ways to start this interaction is on walks. Puppies need exercise. They need to burn off all the energy they have. The same often applies to our kids. Taking them both for a walk is a good step to teach each of them how to interact and get along. I recommend two walks a day for both kids and puppies. Walks with our dogs are one of the most valuable and least used training tools that people use.

One thing I caution new puppy owners against is to be very careful not to over-correct their puppies. Too often, the owners lack of supervision or lack of attention results in a puppy doing something he shouldn't, be it with kids or getting into something they shouldn't. Correcting the puppy for our mistake doesn't create the result we want.

When puppy owners take the time and have the patience to learn how to raise a puppy correctly, they end up with a really nice family pet.

The thing you need to realize is many puppies (depending on their temperament) may not be ready to interact with the kids until they are at least 1 year old or older. Our Border Terrier (Stella) was 3 ½ years old before we trusted her enough to leave her out of her crate when we left the house.

That process goes a lot faster when you have the right information and tools for your training program.

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Ed Frawley

Ed Frawley is the founder of Leerburg. He has been training dogs since the 1950s. For 30 years, Ed bred working bloodline German Shepherds and has produced over 350 litters. During this time, Ed began recording dog training videos and soon grew an interest in police service dogs. His narcotic dogs have been involved in over 1,000 narcotics searches resulting in hundreds of arrests in the state of Wisconsin. Ed now solely focuses on producing dog training courses with renowned dog trainers nationwide. If you want to learn more about Ed, read about his history here.