Connie Sutherland Moderator Reg: 07-13-2005
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Quote: Jennifer Mullen
Just saw your edit - thanks Connie. I won't make the aggression issues the decider, obviously, but I can't help but be aware of them while I look at her pain, like you say. That makes me feel guilty though.
Guilt is another emotion that doesn't belong in this kind of decision. It's so counterproductive. JMO. If you can, please don't let guilt be in there.
I'm trying to make this a balance sheet decision, has she reached this criteria for lack of quality of life, so that it's not emotional, but like you say - it's so hard.
My best-laid plans for lack of emotion are failing horribly!
I have developed such a strong connection with her b/c of her aggression, absolutely. We've really had to work together and she's the one dog I know unquestionably will always, no matter what, have my back. The other dogs love me and look up to me but I don't count on them the same way I do my Teags - she'd do anything for me and I want to honour that.
I was talking to a friend here and she asked how Teagan is with the other animals now, and I realize she's more likely to growl if Neb comes too close to her. I always thought it was mild territoriality/'bugger off annoying teenager' but maybe his rambunctiousness bothers her b/c she's not comfortable.
Toby thinks the peeing could be a behavioural thing, but I'm not sure. Sometimes it's like she can't hold it and other times I'll take her out, she'll pee, I'll put her in the crate and then she'll have an accident.
Anne Jones Webboard User Reg: 04-29-2004
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It is quite true that pain can alter one's disposition/temperment. She is more likely to get less & less tollerant as her discomfort increases. Keeping the other animals at a distance might give her a little releif from having to feel like she has to be 'on guard' or getting annoyed when they came near her.
From the article: The answer to the question of “When is the right day?” Should always be when you ask “Am I keeping him alive for me and not for him?”
Jennifer, I am so sorry you have to go through this. I hope the vet is able to offer some help that will improve Teagan's quality of life and give you more years with her.
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