April 21, 2011
My dog won't go to the bathroom outside by himself eventhough he alwys has free access. What do you suggest?
Full Question:
Mr. Frawley,I looked through all your topics and didn't see this one.
P.B. is my 7 month old Chihuahua, a Father's Day gift. I am at home 24/7 recovering from brain surgery, but this is not about me.
P.B. sleeps by himself in the laundry room with full access to the backyard which he uses faithfully. He always goes outside and never on the floor between the hours of 11:00 p.m. and 5:00 a.m.
While in the office/spare bedroom, P.B. was advising me when he needed to go outside by jumping down off the bed. I found this to be the only reason he jumped down (in other words he trained me). The problem is he will not go outside on his own. He is used to me taking him out. The doors are left open all day and he has free access to the backyard, to his food and water.
I take him outside and wait. He runs to me when he is finished for his praise!! When visitors come (he adores my granddaughter) he loses it and urinates. The other night he jumped up on the bed and urinated and looked right at me while doing it. Outside he went. One evening he urinated almost on my feet in the kitchen. Outside he went.
When he urinates in the house, he is quickly escorted outside along with a scolding. I use a rolled piece of copier paper and whack my arm which is holding him. The noise scares him so much that he yips as if he's getting the beating of his life. My arm is getting smacked, not him. I am sure he knows why is being put outside.
He follows me everywhere, even to the bathroom. He curls up at my feet. Yes, I accidentally step on him regularly.
My stepchildren (18 and 22 years old) play the BOO game (they jump at him when he comes around the corner) which startles 'it' out of P.B. I have asked them to stop, but watching P.B. jump almost a whole foot in the air is just too entertaining to them.
I apologize for this going long. Any advise you have will be greatly appreciated and I thank you in advance.
Sincerely,
Rick
Ed's Answer:
What you are doing when he has an accident is not teaching him the lesson you think it is. You are teaching him to be worried and afraid of you at times, which in turn leads to urinating out of submission or fear. Whacking your arm with a paper AFTER the fact doesn’t make sense to a dog. He DOES NOT know why he is being put outside. Dogs don’t think like that.
I would suggest this recently finished a project I have been working on for years titled COMMON SENSE SOLUTION TO HOUSE TRAINING PROBLEMS.
This is a 160 page eBook that that is based on how we house train pups in our home (I have bred over 360 litters in the last 45 years). It is also based on 10 years of emails on house training problems from people like yourself.
In my opinion this eBook is the best collection of information on how to housetrain a dog that’s ever been put together.
I have reviewed your email and this eBook along with the DVD titled YOUR PUPPY 8 WEEKS to 8 MONTHS will guide you through the issues you will face in solving your problems.
If you spend some time using the search function (located in the upper left hand corner of the website) you will find many useful articles and posts that address all the problems you are having. I would type in submissive urination or submissive peeing to find more advice.
I would also forbid the kids from teasing this puppy, it’s not funny for the puppy. It’s actually quite upsetting to me to hear that these kids are that old and they find it funny that they are terrorizing a puppy.
If they were 4 or 5 years old, I could understand it but they are supposed to be grown ups! I am an advocate for the dog, so I don’t have a lot of patience for people like your stepkids who cause anxiety or stress in a dog. :-(
I would suggest this recently finished a project I have been working on for years titled COMMON SENSE SOLUTION TO HOUSE TRAINING PROBLEMS.
This is a 160 page eBook that that is based on how we house train pups in our home (I have bred over 360 litters in the last 45 years). It is also based on 10 years of emails on house training problems from people like yourself.
In my opinion this eBook is the best collection of information on how to housetrain a dog that’s ever been put together.
I have reviewed your email and this eBook along with the DVD titled YOUR PUPPY 8 WEEKS to 8 MONTHS will guide you through the issues you will face in solving your problems.
If you spend some time using the search function (located in the upper left hand corner of the website) you will find many useful articles and posts that address all the problems you are having. I would type in submissive urination or submissive peeing to find more advice.
I would also forbid the kids from teasing this puppy, it’s not funny for the puppy. It’s actually quite upsetting to me to hear that these kids are that old and they find it funny that they are terrorizing a puppy.
If they were 4 or 5 years old, I could understand it but they are supposed to be grown ups! I am an advocate for the dog, so I don’t have a lot of patience for people like your stepkids who cause anxiety or stress in a dog. :-(
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